Noma ubani oye emshadweni uzwile ukuthi othile unikeza isilwane somshado emshadweni. Ngokuvamile, inikezwa nguyise womakoti, indoda enhle kakhulu, noma umngane oseduze noma isihlobo somakoti noma umkhwenyana.
Njengoba ngithole umlenze womshado wesabekayo (ie long-winded and shame) emshadweni wami futhi ngisisimenywa esiye salalela ngokwethukela ukuziphatha komuntu okuhlukunyezwa komshado / idiotic sputterings, nginikeza la macebiso kulabo abafuna ukubhala futhi unike isinkwa esikhulu somshado esizokhunjulwa ngokuthanda.
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Nakhu Indlela Yokuqala:
- Uma ungaziwa ngamaphesenti angu-50 weqembu elihlangene, plani ukuzikhomba ngokufushane futhi ukhulume ubuhlobo bakho nombhangqwana ngaphambi kokuba ungene ku-toast. (Kodwa khumbula: Kuqondene nabo, hhayi wena!) Bese uqale isilwane somshado ngokunikeza umbuzo mayelana nomcimbi omangalisayo / othintekayo / wenhle / ongawukhumbule / ohlukile (noma ugcwalise umkhosi wakho wesivumelwano) oke wafakaza.
- Njengenkulumo, isinkwa somshado sinesiqalo, esiphakathi, nokuphela. Ungacabangi ukunikeza inhlawulo yomshado ongenayo impromptu ngaphandle kokuthi uhle kakhulu ekucabangeni ngezinyawo zakho. Esikhundleni salokho, ngaphambi komkhosi womshado, bhala phansi imicabango yakho mayelana nomshado. Abantu abathandayo bathini ngomdlalo wabo? Yini eyenzeka kuwe ngenhlangano yabo? Ingabe babelane ngezinto ezithandayo noma izinkanuko?
- Thola futhi uchaze izimfanelo ezinhle mayelana nomakoti, umkhwenyana, kanye nalabo ababili njengombhangqwana njengoba uqala ukuthatha amanothi. Uma ufuna ukuhamba kancane ememori emgqeni wakho womshado, kuhle ukukhetha imemori ehilela kokubili umakoti nomkhwenyana. Ingabe kukhona okuyingqayizivele endleleni abahlangana ngayo? Noma ukuzibandakanya kwabo? Lezi zingenza ama-anecdotes athakazelisayo.
- Okuyisisekelo, isilonda somshado osikhululayo kufanele sibe nesifudumele, somuntu siqu, futhi sifushane. Uma ungumculi wokuma, faka amahlaya. Uma ungenjalo, idlale ngokuqondile. Ngenkathi ungase ube nesifiso sokuthakazelisa, khumbula ukuthi kumakoti nomkhwenyana amazwi akho ayokhunjulwa kuze kube phakade. Noma yikuphi ukuhleka usulu kufanele kube mnene futhi kuhle-imvelo.
- Ugxile kulokho ongakusho? I-intanethi igcwele izingcaphuno ezinkulu ongazisebenzisa ukuqala inkulumo yakho noma ukuphefumlelwa kusuka.
- Unganiki umkhonto womshado uma uphuzile. I-Period.
- Uma isilonda somshado sibhalwa ngumthwebuli wezithombe noma i-videographer, vakashela indawo yokudlela ngaphambi kokuba unike isilonda sokugcoba izinwele nokugqoka izingubo zakho.
- Amanye ama-don'ts: Ungakhulumi izintombi zangaphambilini, amantombazane, noma oshade naye emshadweni womshado. Ungakhulumi ngemali yomshado noma izipho zomshado. Ungakhulumi ngamalungiselelo esizayo abashadile bangase bakhulume kuwe. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukukhulelwa kanye nezingane.
- Ukuqeda isilwane somshado esithombeni esiphakeme futhi esinethemba. Veza zonke izifiso ezinhle ekamelweni lekusasa elijabulisayo, eliphilile, eliphumelelayo.
- Okokugcina, cela iqembu elihlangene ukuba lihlanganyele nawe emgqonyeni womshado, phakamisa ingilazi yakho ye-Champagne, futhi uthi, "Ku (igama lomlobokazi) kanye (igama lomkhwenyana) ...."
- Vumela wonke umuntu wazi ukuthi umkhwenyana womshado uqedile ngokungeza okuthandayo okuhlanzekile phansi-i-hatch ibinzana, njenge-Cheers! noma uSalut wobuzwe! Chaim !, A sa sante !, Za vashe zdorovye !, Prosit !, Skal! futhi cetera.
Amathiphu
- Gcina isilonda somshado esifushane, ngaphansi kwemizuzu emihlanu.
- Gxila kulo mbhangqwana, futhi ubhekane nabo uma ushonta. Gwema ukukhuluma ngomshado wakho noma ubuhlobo bakho.
- Khumbula ukuthi abazali nabadala bazoba khona, ngakho-ke ningasebenzi okwesibhakabhaka.
- Vumela isikhathi kusengaphambili ukuvuselela isilwane somshado. Uma uvame ukwethuka phambi kwamaqembu, kulungile ukulifunda kusuka ekhadini.
- Ungenzi amahlaya angenalutho.
- Vumela imizwa yakho efudumele kakhulu kulo mbhangqwana idlule.
Okudingayo
- Ukuzwa (noma okungenani ukubukeka) kokuqiniseka
- Sula izwi eliphethe
- I-Glass ye- champagne
- Ukunakwa kwezivakashi
- Smile.
Uma kwenzeka nje
Uma kufanele ufakaze omunye umuntu ekhubeka ngesigqoko somshado esabekayo - mhlawumbe umuntu udakiwe, athandwe ngamatshe, ethukuthele, uboshwe ngolimi noma aphelelwe amandla - yenza into efanele futhi uyimise ngenxa yomakoti nomkhwenyana. Sukuma, sibonga isikhulumi, uphakamise ingilazi bese uyigcoba lo mbhangqwana ngaphandle kokubhekisela enhlekeleleni eyandulele.