I-Phoenix Izingane zingabanikela emphakathini wabo
Ngathola umbuzo omkhulu kumama wendawo ofuna ukufundisa indodana yakhe izifundo ezithile ezibalulekile ekuqaleni kokuphila.
Sawubona. Nginezingane ezimbili indodakazi yami eneminyaka engu-21 ubudala nendodana yami eneminyaka engu-6 nengxenye ubudala. Umbuzo wami ukhona yini imisebenzi yokuvolontiya ePhoenix yabantwana abancane. Ngokusobala akuyona indodakazi yami nokho ngoba usemncane kakhulu. Kodwa nginomuzwa wokuthi indodana yami iseminyakeni efanelekayo yokwethulwa emsebenzini wokuzithandela. Unemithwalo yemithwalo eminingana yakhe ekhaya kanye nesikole futhi uyithatha kahle (uneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala). Kodwa singumkhaya wezinga eliphansi futhi nakuba singenaso sonke isikhathi sokunikeza, noma yonke imidlalo emisha kanye namathoyizi ongaba nabo, ngifuna izingane zami ziqonde ukuthi sinezibusiso eziningi. Futhi lokho ngokubonga lokho esinakho nokuzinikela ekusizeni labo abanenhlanhla kungaholela enjabulweni ejulile engakwazi ukuthenga. Ngiyazi ukuthi kubonakala sengathi kujulile kubantwana abancane kodwa ngikholelwa ukuthi akudingeki ukuthi baqonde ukuthi kungani nje kuphela kodwa ngokubanika lokho okuhlangenwe nakho kuyobasiza ukuba bakuqonde konke kamuva ekuphileni. Ngifunde okuningi njengoba ulwazi lwami luvumela inthanethi futhi lithole izinhlangano eziningi zezingane zokuzithandela kwamanye amazwe kodwa akekho lapha e-Phoenix. Ngifuna amahora ambalwa ngenyanga ukuthi mhlawumbe sonke singenza okuthile njengomndeni ukusiza labo abahluphekile.
Ngimangalisa kakhulu ukuthi ufuna ukwabelana ngefilosofi yakho enhle nendodana yakho encane. Uzwakala njengengane encane, nokufunda ububele kuqala, ngaphezu kokuba nomama onakekelayo, ngokuqinisekile kuzomsiza ukumbumbisela ekubeni umuntu omdala omuhle. Kwafika ingqondo eminengi yamathuba.
Yiqiniso, kunezigameko ezibandakanya ukuhlanza imvelo, ukutshala izihlahla nokunye , kepha ngithola ukuthi ungathanda ukusebenza nabantu ngendlela ethile. Nanka imicabango emihlanu engangiyiyo:
- Kunezinhlangano eziningi ezizungezile edolobheni ezidla ukudla kubantu abangenamakhaya noma abangenalutho, futhi njalo zifuna abasizi. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuzivolontiya njalo, isidingo siphezulu njalo emaholide .
- Izinhlangano ezinjengePhoenix Rescue Mission emsebenzini wezinhlelo zokubuyela emuva kuya esikoleni, njengokufaka izinto zokukhwabanisa noma ukuhlunga izimpahla zesikole.
- Uma unokuthutha, noma yikuphi inhlangano ehambisa abantu asebekhulile, noma ukuhambela izindawo zokuhlala noma izibhedlela noma asebekhulile, mhlawumbe ngeke ukwazi ukuthi indodana yakho iza nawe ukuvakashela. Ewebhusayithi ye-HandsOn Greater Phoenix ungasesha amathuba okuzithandela uphinde uhlenge lokho okusesho kulabo abandakanya izingane. Ithuba ngalinye lezisebenzi zokuzithandela lizocacisa imikhawulo ngokuphathelene nobudala nokuthi ngabe umuntu omdala kufanele ahambisane nengane noma cha.
- Uma uhileleke endaweni yokukhulekela yanoma yiluphi uhlobo, bazokwazi ukunikeza ulwazi mayelana nezinhlelo lapho indodana yakho ingahileleka khona ekusizeni abanye.
- Ingabe ingcweti? Mhlawumbe angathanda ukwenza amakhadidi eholide ukuze izingane zibe nesimo esinzima phakathi kwamaholide. URonald McDonald House ufika engqondweni.
Ngenxa yokuthi indodana yakho isencane kakhulu, kuzodingeka uhambe naye kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ugcina nini. Insiza ongayithola iwusizo yi-Volunteer Match, lapho ngiphawula khona amathuba amaningi. Sebenzisa isici sokusesha okuthuthukisiwe ukuze useshe izinto ezifanele izingane. Njengoba siseduze namaholide, imindeni ithanda eyakho eyifuna ukwenza okuthile okuhle kwabanye iyakwazi njalo.