Okufanele ugqoke ekungcwabeni kwehlobo

Ingabe Kufanele Ugqoke Izingubo Zomnyama, Zokushisa?

Akusekudala kakhulu ngaya enkonzweni yomngcwabo e-Phoenix. Kwakungu-Agasti, kanti izinga lokushisa usuku ngalunye lelo sonto lalilingaphezu kuka-110 ° F. Njengoba ngingakaze ngiye eminyakeni eyodwa eminengi, ngathola izeluleko ezinengqondo ezincane kakhulu mayelana nokuthi isembatho esifanele sibe yiphi kulabo abahlala enkangala yasentshonalanga, ikakhulukazi ezinyangeni zasehlobo (sinezinyanga ezinhlanu zehlobo lapha) lapho izinga lokushisa livame ama-degree angaphezu kuka-100.

Nazi ezinye iziphetho zami ngemva kokucwaninga nokucela abangane / abangane. La maphuzu kungenzeka asebenza ezifundeni eziningi zase-United States ehlobo, kanye nokunye kwezinye izinkathi. Yiqiniso, ngenza ucabange lapha: ukuthi umngcwabo awukona ohloniphekile, inhloko yombuso, noma umuntu ozokungcwaba ngomngcwabo; ukuthi umngcwabo awuhlotshaniswa nenkolo edinga ukugqoka noma ikhanda ethile ukugqoka kumadoda noma abesifazane; ukuthi umngcwabo wenziwa ngamathuna noma endaweni yokukhulekela, hhayi ebhishi noma emasangweni.

• Uma inkolo ngokwayo ingenayo izidingo zekhanda lenhloko noma isitifiketi, asikho isidingo sokugqoka enye yalesi senzakalo uma ungajwayelekile ukugqoka isigqoko. Uma ingxenye yesevisi izobe ingaphandle kwelanga elivuthayo , noma kunjalo, isigqoko (hhayi isithuthuthu se-baseball) singase sibe umbono omuhle. Isambulela, njengoba kuboniswe esithombeni, futhi isebenza.
• Akudingeki ukuba uphume futhi uthenge isambatho esimnyama noma ugqoke omnyama uma ungenayo kakade. I-Navy, igrey, noma umbala omnyama noma othulisiwe kulungile.

• Abesifazane abaningi bagqoke ama-slack manje, ngakho-ke uma ingubo ingahlali kahle noma ungenawo owodwa okufanelekile, ama-dark slacks ahle. I-gaucho ibhulukwe noma i-capris egqoka ingase ibe kahle.
• Kwabesilisa, izikhwama zihlala zifanelekile, kodwa uma i-suit ayinayo into oyithandayo i-pair of slacks emgqeni oqinile, omnyama uzosebenza. Ihembe lokugqoka (ngokungafani nehembe legalufu noma ihembe le tee) lifanelekile.

• Kwabesifazane, izingubo kufanele zizithobe. Ngalokho ngisho ukuthi umgqomo ogobhozayo, igqoke elingenamikhono noma i-spandex eqinile akuyona ukukhetha okufanelekile. Uma ugqoke ama-slacks, khetha i-blouse engumbala oqinile noma iphethini elicashile. Izimbali zasendle noma i-giraffe ephrinta imbala cishe akufanelekile lapha. I-blazer elula eqinile, i-vesti noma i-shirt-jacket ingaba kuhle, uma kwenzeka ukhathazekile ngokushisa ngaphakathi kwezakhiwo eziphethwe umoya.
• Ngifunde ukuthi akulungile ukukhombisa amahlombe emngcwabeni. Lapha ehlane, angikholelwa ukuthi lokho kuyiqiniso. Ingubo engenamikhono noma i-blouse ingahle ihle, uma, futhi, ingabonakali kakhulu.
• Kubantu, i-necktie ihle futhi kufanele ibe yimfihlakalo. Futhi, ngaphandle kokuthi iphethini ethize enhlanganweni, gcina iphethini elula futhi imibala ithulisiwe. Uma kushisa kakhulu, i-neckties ithathwa njengokuzikhethela e-Phoenix.
• Izicathulo ezifanelekayo kokubili amadoda nabesifazane kusho ukuthi akukho izicathulo, ama-slippers, ama-flip flops. Ingabe izicathulo ezivulekile ezenzelwe abesifazane? Angiboni ukuthi kungani kungenjalo. Kuthiwani nge-pantyhose? Bambalwa abesifazane abagqoka i-pantyhose ehlobo lapha. Amadoda kufanele agqoke izicathulo ezivaliwe, hhayi izicathulo.
• Uma le nsizakalo ingumuntu womuntu oyilungu lezempi noma inhlangano efana nomfaniswano ojwayelekile, ukugqoka leyo yunifomu kungamukeleka.

Ngakho yini engingayibheka ingubo engafanele engcwabeni? Ama-shorts, ama-jeans, ama-tee shirts, ama-tank phezulu, ukugqoka ama-athletic, khona-ke ama-moos, ama-sundresses, ama-dress cocktail ama-sexy, ama-carpet amafashini abomvu, noma yini ongayigqoka ukuze nidlale i-tennis, i-softball noma i-gym. Yiqiniso, uma ungaphansi kweminyaka engu-14, lokho kuyinkinga ehluke ngokuphelele.

Khumbula ukuthi ngisho nokushisa kwehlobo , izinga lokugqoka izingubo zakho kufanele lihambisane nemvelo kanye nesenzakalo. Ingabe lo mkhosi usendaweni enkulu kakhulu ye-upscale, ye-club club? Ingabe le nkonzo imikhosi encane, yomndeni kuphela noma into enkulu, yomphakathi? Angikwazi ukwenza izitatimende ezicacile kuzo zonke izimo kodwa kunamazwana ambalwa jikelele okumele asebenze ezimweni eziningi:

1. Awuhambi kulo mcimbi ukuze ucabange abanye noma uthole umngane womshado. Ukhona ukuhlonipha umuntu oye wadlula futhi ukhokha izindinganiso zakho emndenini wakhe.

1. Izambatho zakho kufanele zihloniphe lesi senzakalo. Ucabanga ukuthi umuntu oshonile uzocabanga ngembatho yakho? Kuthiwani ngomndeni?
2. Wena kanye nesembatho sakho akufanele kube yisikhungo sokunakwa kulo mhlangano.
3. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukunquma ukuthi ingubo oyikhethile ifanele noma cha, khetha enye into. Uma ungaqiniseki, thembela ama-instincts akho.
4. Uma kushisa kakhulu futhi uzoba ngaphandle kwengxenye yalo mcimbi, qiniseka ukuthi noma yini oyigqokeyo ayikufanelekile futhi ithambo elincane. Yiba ukhululekile. Ngempela, kuzoshisa ngaphandle futhi ungase uhlale isikhathi esithile.
5. I-antiperspirant ngokuqinisekile izobe ihlelekile, kodwa qaphela ukuthi kungase kube khona futhi abantu abaningi baphelela emakhaleni noma ama-colognes.
6. Ungakwazi yini ukugqoka konke okumhlophe noma obomvu noma obomvu okushisayo kumngcwabo? Ungakwazi yini ukugqoka ingubo emfushane kakhulu noma amabhulukwe aqinile kakhulu? Amathuba akekho ozokucela ukuba ushiye, kodwa ngaphandle kokuba wenze isitatimende esithile (mhlawumbe umuntu owedlule uthanda umbala omnyama futhi wonke amalungu omndeni abuzwa ukuthi agqoke pink) angifuni.
7. Ungapheli-ukufinyelela futhi ungasebenzisi ukwakheka okukhulu. Okulula kakhulu.

Ukugcina okulula akusho ukuthi kufanele ubheke ukuthukuthela noma. Ungabonisa isitayela esihle nenhlonipho ngesikhathi esifanayo. Nasi iseluleko esisisekelo kunazo zonke engingazinikeza: uma ungabaza, gqoka okuthile ongase ugqoke enkulumweni yasehlobo ukuze uthole umsebenzi wezobuchwepheshe ebhizinisini, njengebhange noma inkampani yomthetho, nje ngombala omnyama. Awukwazi ukuhamba kabi lapho.

Ngakho-ke nansi umshicileli wami: Angiyena umklami wemfashini, uchwepheshe womngcwabo noma uchwepheshe we-etiquette. Ngingumuntu owayefuna izeluleko mayelana nokuthi yini ezoba ingubo efanele ngomngcwabo ngosuku olushisayo, ehlobo ePenienix.