Amathiphu kanye nezeluleko Zokuhamba Ngomzali Ongabodwa

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumzali ongayedwa eholidini nezingane zakho noma kwenzeka nje ukuthi uthatha izingane zakho ohambweni ngaphandle komngane wakho womshado, abazali abahamba ngezinyawo nabantwana babhekene nezinkinga ezikhethekile. Nazi ezinye izeluleko eziphezulu zokukusiza ukuthi uphathe ngokwakho nezingane ezincane:

Ukuhamba ngezingane
Ukuhamba nezingane ku-tow kuyinselele ngisho nabazali ababili. Kodwa umzali oyedwa ongeke ahlasele izingane, imithwalo nemibhalo izokugcwalisa izandla zakhe.

Yenza okusemandleni akho ukuqeda isidingo sokuma emigqeni ende. Qinisekisa ukuhlola ukungena ku-Intanethi ku-flight yakho amahora angu-24 ngaphambi kokuhamba. Phrinta iziphazamiso zakho zokugibela noma ulande uhlelo lokusebenza lweselula lwedivayisi ukuze ukwazi ukufinyelela kalula kufoni yakho.

Yazi imithetho mayelana nokuhlonza wena nomntanakho okungase kudingeke ukuba uhambe .

Lapho uhamba ngokuphepha kwezindiza, qiniseka ukuthi ukhetha imigwaqo yomndeni, ejwayelekile kakhulu.

Ucabangile ukuthi ungayithola kanjani esiteshini sezindiza ufike ehhotela lakho ngemuva kokuba indiza yakho ihlale? Ngaphambi kokuba usuke ekhaya, thatha isikhathi sokucwaninga ukuthi ihhotela lakho linikeza isevisi ye-shuttle nezinye izinketho.

Ukukhetha amahhotela angama-Kid-Friendly
Iningi lala mahhotela libiza ukuthi liyabantwana, kodwa ubufakazi buyi-pudding. Yenza ucwaningo lwakho kusengaphambili futhi ubheke amahhotela ahlinzeka okulandelayo:

Lapho uhamba wedwa nezingane, bheka amahhotela abeka amanani awo ngokususelwa "ekamelweni ngalinye ngehora" kunokuba "umuntu ngamunye ngobusuku bonke."

Iningi lamahhotela libeka amanani "ekamelweni ngalinye ebusuku" futhi ivumela abantu abadala ababili nabantwana ababili ekamelweni elijwayelekile. Amahhotela amaningi e- Disney World Resort, isibonelo, akhokhisa izinga elifanayo lekamelo labantu abangaba bantu abane. Amanye amahhotela akwa-Disney abuye anikele ngamakamelo emikhaya emikhulu kuze kufike kubantu abayisithupha .

Kodwa izindawo eziningi zokungcebeleka (ikakhulukazi izindawo zokubhuka ezihlanganisa zonke ) zibeka amanani abo ngokusekelwe kokubili kwabantu abadala. I-bane yokuhamba komzali ongayedwa yile "imali yokukhokhela eyodwa," yindlela yokwenza ihotela libe nesilinganiso samakamelo afanayo ngisho noma umuntu omdala kuphela ehlala egumbini. Umzali ongayedwa ukhokhiswa umlinganiso "womuntu ngamunye" we $ 150, futhi ukhokhiswa isengezo samaphesenti angu-50 kuya kwangu-100. Lo mkhakha ovamile usebenza kanjani uma omunye umzali ehamba nezingane, ezimbili, noma ezintathu?

Yeka ukuthi kungaba mnandi uma umuntu omdala eboshwa kuphela "ngomuntu ngamunye ngobusuku" futhi ingane ikhokhelwa kuphela intengo yezingane evamile. Izindawo zokungcebeleka ezimbalwa ezibandakanya zonke izinhlobo zinikeza lolu hlobo lokuphumula kwentengo ngesikhathi ukukhushulwa okukhethekile ngezikhathi ezincane zomsindo wonyaka. Kodwa cishe, umuntu omdala uyokhokhiswa isengezo esisodwa, futhi ingane yokuqala ithola isilinganiso sezingane esaphundukile. Izingane ezengeziwe kufanele zithole izinga lomntwana wesaphulelo.

Uma, isibonelo, umama wayehamba nomuntu oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala kanye nomntwana oneminyaka engu-3 ubudala, kungenzeka ukuthi akhokhe amanani amabili omdala kanti oneminyaka engu-3 ubudala uyokhokha izinga labantwana.

Izinsiza Eziwusizo
Ezinye izindawo zokubhuka zinikeza ukukhushulwa okuvamile kwabazali abangabodwa abahamba nezingane. Futhi hlola lezi zinkampani, eziye zaqhubeka zizofinyelela kuleli qembu.

Ukuzwa Kududuza Njengomzali Ongayedwa
Ngaphandle kwezindleko, abazali abathile abangabodwa bazizwa bengakhululekile neminye imindeni yokuphumula. Amanye amathiphu:

Amadokhumenti Okuhamba Lapho Ewela Izimpande
Abazali abahamba ngezingane kanye nezingane zabo kudingeka baqaphele ukuthi bangadinga amaphepha engeziwe lapho bewela kwamanye amazwe. Qinisekisa ukuthi ufunda ngemibhalo edingekayo yokuhamba ngamazwe nezingane .

- Ehlelwe nguSuzanne Rowan Kelleher