Esimweni samaJuda, umfana ufika lapho efika eneminyaka engu-13 futhi uba umthamo we-bar namalungelo nemithwalo yemfanelo yomuntu. Igama elithi bar mitzvah libuye libhekise emkhosini wenkolo ngokwawo; i-bat mitzvah iyimikhosi efanelwe yamantombazane, futhi zombili lezi zikhathi zivame ukuba nemikhosi emikhulu.
Isiko lokulandela imikhosi yenkolo ye-bar mitzvah neqembu yilezi zamuva.
Ngisho nomusha umqondo wokuhamba ekhaya uhambe ibha noma i-bat mitzvah-mhlawumbe esinagogeni elisemlandweni esiqhingini saseCaribbean, noma eMexico, e-Italy, noma e-Colorado ski resort, noma emkhunjini wemikhumbi.
Ezinye izizathu imikhaya ingase ikhethe ibha noma bat mitzvah kude nekhaya zihlanganisa:
- Ugogo nomkhulu, omalume, umzala wakhe bahlala emadolobheni ahlukene, amalungu amaningi omndeni ayahamba kakade.
- Umfana noma intombazane ingase ibe nokwesaba ngokufunda iTorah ngokuzwakalayo phambi kwamakhulu abantu ethempelini lendawo
- Umfana noma intombazane angase akhethe umcimbi ophansi kakhulu ngeqembu elincane, elisondelene kakhulu
- Indawo yangasese inethuba lokuba yinto ecindezelwe kakhulu.
- Imindeni ingase ifune futhi ukubalekela ukucindezelwa ukuba isitele ye-bar mitzvah noma i-bat mitzvah party ngemuva komkhosi. (Kweminye imibuthano, bukhoma amaqembu kanye ne-fancy catering yiyona ndawo yokuqala.)
- Izindleko zebha yendawo yokufika noma i-bat mitzvah ingase ibe ngaphansi kwesabelomali somkhosi wendawo.
- Imindeni ingase ifune ukwandisa ukuhlala kwabo emva komkhosi nokugubha futhi ujabulele ukuvakasha komndeni.
Ukuhlela ibha yokuvakasha noma iBat Mitzvah
Kukhona izinkampani zokuhamba ezingenza wonke amalungiselelo adingekayo kubha noma bat mitzvah, kusukela ekubhubheni umfundisi ukuze akhiphe amahhotela kanye nokudla. Hlola indawo ye-bar mitzvah noma imibono ye-bat mitzvah eBarmitzvahvacations.com.
Uma ucabangela umkhosi weBar / Bat Mitzvah eZweni Ongcwele , kufanele uthintane ne-website ye-Ministry of Tourism ye-Israel noma ubiza i-1-888-77-ISRAEL ukuze uthole imininingwane yokukhetha kanye nenqwaba yezinsiza. Futhi, cabanga ukuthi iyiphi indawo e-Israel ongathanda ukuyibamba.
Enye inketho ethandwayo yukuthi ube nemaskah emkhunjini. I-Destination Mitzvahs ibambisene nemigqa engu-17 ye-cruise imigqa kanye nezintambo ezintathu zokuhlanganisa konke futhi ingahlela umkhosi ogwini, endaweni yokubhuka, endaweni yokubiza, noma ngisho nasemkhunjini.
Cabanga ukuthi unganikeza izindleko zokuhamba ezihambelweni, noma ngabe uzoba necala lokuhamba kwabo. Futhi, cabanga ukuthi ungacela yini ukuthi lezi zivakashi zithumele izipho ekhaya lakho noma uzilethe endaweni ye-bar mitzvah.
- Ehlelwe nguSuzanne Rowan Kelleher