I-Hanukkah Etiquette kwabangewona amaJuda: Okufanele Ukunike Abangane abangamaJuda ngeHanukkah

Amathiphu ayishumi nane okugubha uHanukkah

Yini efanele - futhi engalungile - ukunikeza umngane ongumJuda noma osebenza naye eHanukkah?

Uma uthandana kakhulu nomfana ongumJuda futhi ufuna ukunika unina okuthile okuthile ngamaholide - futhi awufuni ukuwushaya - yiziphi iziqondiso ezingabonakali? Uma umndeni wakho ugubha uKhisimusi, futhi umngane wakho omncane wengane ungumJuda, yini okufanele uyenze futhi nini ngesikhathi esifanele sokunikeza isipho se-Hanukkah?

Noma ake sithi usebenza nomuntu ongumJuda, futhi ufuna ukuzitholela isipho sikaKhisimusi: kufanele wena?

Imfihlo Enhle Kunazo Zonke Nge-Hanukkah: Akuyona uKhisimusi WamaJuda

Okokuqala, i-factoid ebalulekile: i-Hanukkah akuyona ngempela "i-Christmas Christmas".

Iholide elincane lamaJuda, elibaluleke kangako emaqenjini angokwenkolo yamaJuda kuneKhisimusi kumaKristu.

Lokho kusho, ikakhulukazi e-United States, i-Hanukkah ithathe isici sokupha isipho. Kungani? Ngoba kwenzeka nje ukuthi kwenzeke phakathi nenyanga kaDisemba, ngenkathi yokuthenga ngoKhisimusi.

I-Dos & Donts ye-Hanukkah Gift Giving

Ngesithakazelo se-holiday cheer, nansi ayisishiyagalombili ethi "I-Dos and Don'ts" yamacebiso we-Hanukkah okupha isipho - ayisishiyagalombili ngokuhlonipha ubusuku obunane be-Hanukkah.

  1. Unganiki uHamu eHanukkah. Akuwona wonke umuntu ongumJuda okhathalela ukudla ukudla kosher. Abaningi baseNew York abaJuda abakwenzi. Ngokuvamile, gwema amabhasiksi okudla okuchichima izinto ezinjenge-bacon yaseCanada, imfucumfucu eyomile, iSerrano ham, isisisi segazi lase-Italiya, ibhokisi lama-cookies amahle ahlotshisiwe njengeSanta, noma i-Christmascake cake. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma umngane wakho ongumJuda engumama we-foodie noma enenhlobo ethize yezokudla okungezona okwesokudla, zama isitifiketi sesipho kumuntu othandwa kakhulu, odlalwa yi-hipster-run eBrooklyn okuthiwa u-Traif futhi, ngokungaqondakali, eseduze kakhulu ne-Hasidic umphakathi eWilliamsburg. Noma ungawayisa eMnyakeni we-Latke waminyaka yonke, ngakho-ke angakwazi ukunambitha ngezindlela ezahlukene ezahlukahlukene ze-artisanal latkes.
  1. Nika : Nikeza izincwadi, izingubo, amathoyizi, i-electronics, imishini, ukuphuza, ubucwebe, ukuhamba eParis noma inyanga, ukheshi, izipho zesikhathi ezifana nokuzikhethela mahhala, noma iminikelo yokusiza. Ngokuphathelene nezipho zokudla, bheka ngenhla.
  2. Ungabi Umbala Oyimpumputhe: Dlula kulabo PJs nge-Motif Red-and-Green Reindeer. Imibala kaKhisimusi ibomvu futhi iluhlaza. Imibala ye-Hanukkah iluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nomhlophe.
  1. Nika Isipho Sakho Ngeholide . Uma kuyisipho se-Hanukkah, zama ukukunikeza ngendlela efika ngesikhathi, okushiwo phakathi kweHanukkah. Lokho akumelwe kube nzima - leli holide ligijima izinsuku eziyisishiyagalombili! Ubusuku bokugcina buni i-Hanukkah luni?
  2. Unganiki I-Christmas Creche ye-Hanukkah. Ngomqondo owodwa njengo # 3 ngenhla, unganiki isipho se-Hanukkah esinezikhala ze-Santas, amathinki e-candy, ama-snowflakes ebusika, noma izihlahla zikaKhisimusi. Ngaphandle kokuba umamukeli wesipho sakho ethanda i-kitsch, gwema ukunikeza lokho kukhishwa kwekhrisimasi ngesandla, noma ngabe uyisitshela eBrooklyn kusukela emakethe yemikhumbi eVenice.
  3. Zethembele kuzipho zakwaHanukkah zendabuko, Uma ungaqiniseki . Kuhlale ukubheja okuphephile ukunikeza into yendabuko.

    Ezinganeni, okulingana ne-Christmas stocking-stuffers kuyi- dreidel (i-toy ekhethekile yezinhlayiyana nezinhlamvu zesiHeberu ohlangothini ngalunye), noma izikhwama ezincane zeshokoledi ezifakwe ephepheni legolide ukuze zibukeke njengezinhlamvu zemali.

    Kubantu abadala, cabanga ngamakhandlela amahle angamadoda, amafutha amahle okupheka, noma incwadi yokupheka yamaJuda. Lokho kusho ukuthi umngane wakho noma osebenza naye angase akhethe isipiliyoni se-foodie, njengesikole sokupheka eBrooklyn Kitchen ukuze kuphekwe incwadi yokupheka yePhasika eqoqa uthuli efulethini eligcwele iCarroll Gardens.

  4. Ungalibopheli Isipho se-Hanukkah ekufakweni kukaKhisimusi . Gwema ukufaka isipho seHanukkah ephepheni lokugubha uKhisimusi; izincwadi zingase zibe yizilwane ezisengozini kodwa zisahlulelwa yizikhonkwane zazo.

    Uma uthenga iphepha lokugqoka, khetha iphethini yokukhiqiza noma i-splurge ku-Hanukkah okunamathiselwe okukhethekile (noma kungase kube ngaphezulu futhi uma uyivula kuyoba khona ngaphansi kwayo kunalokho okulindelekile.) Noma, hamba uhlaza, futhi ubuyekeze ngobuciko umdala ingxenye yeThe New York Times noma iphepha lokunamathisela elibomvu elivela kumaqoqo akho okugcina avela ku-cleaner-cleaners yakho.

    I-Ditto ikhadi lesipho: Thenga, sebenzisa noma wenze ikhadi le-Hanukkah, noma usebenzise ikhadi lokuthula elinomhlaba wonke kusukela ku-charity efana ne-UNICEF, kodwa ngenxa yokuvumelana, ungafaki ikhadi likaKhisimusi ngesipho sakho se-Hanukkah. Noma, yenza i-combo ye-Christmas-Hanukkah isipho sokugqoka imindeni enokholo ehlanganisiwe.

  1. Ungabhalisi Umngane Wakho ku-JDate.com ye-Hanukkah . Ekugcineni, uma umngane wakho ongumJuda engashadile, ungambhalisi ku-JDate, naphezu kokumaketha kwengoma yakhe ye-siren ngokuthi "indlela yanamuhla yokuba abantu bamaJuda bathole uthando." Kungani? Ngoba leso sipho silondolozwa omama abangamaJuda.

Amaholide amahle!

Ihlelwe ngu-Alison Lowenstein