Thola Uthando Nothando Emzini Ngezeluleko ezivela ku-NYC Uchwepheshe Obudlelwane
Ukuthandana eNew York City kuhlale kuyintandokazi. Awazi ukuthi ngabe ubusuku obuthile buzophenduka yini isiqephu se- Sex ne-City , i-Odd Couple , noma uMthetho noMyalelo . Ngeke yini kube mnandi ukuthola iseluleko esithile sezobuchwepheshe eNew York City sokuthandana nomqondo wokuziphatha futhi uthole ezinye izinkomba ngalokho UNGAKWENZEKA?
Ngeshwa, ngiphumile emdlalweni womdlalo iminyaka eminingi futhi angikaze ngijabule kakhulu ukuqala. Ngakho ngabuza ochwepheshe base-New York-based expert experts, abakwa-matchmakers, nabalobi uTamsen Fadal noThithu ukuhlanganyela ngamanye amathiphu okuthola uthando (noma okungenani isikhathi esihle) eNew York City.
Banikela ngezindlela eziyingqayizivele emikhankaso yakhe yokuthandana kwe-NYC futhi banikeze amathiphu amnandi kakhulu mayelana nendlela yokuzohlangana ngayo eNew York City.
Yiziphi izinto ezinzima kakhulu mayelana nokuphola eNew York City? Ingabe kukhona i-NYC-ethize yokuziphatha ethandwayo okufanele abantu bazi ngayo?
UMat: Ngisho ukuthi amadoda aseNew York City akwenzile. Kunabesifazane abangabodwa abangama-200 000 kunamadoda angashadile ku-Apple Big, ngakho-ke amadoda angamakhosi lapha! Futhi ngizoba ngowokuqala ukuvuma ukuthi amantombazane amaningi e-NYC anesici esincane sokufaneleka uma kuziwa kwabesifazane.
Tamsen: Angizange ngithi "amakhosi," uMatthew. Kodwa ngizozibiza ngokuthi "ama-daters angenasiphelo." Ukucabanga kwabo kungukuthi uma owesifazane eseseshini naye engabanikeli ngokuqondile lokho abakufunayo, abanenkinga yokuqeda usuku ngokungazelelwe futhi baqhubekela phambili kowesifazane olandelayo, abakholelwa ukuthi ukhona ekhoneni elinde ekuphelelwe ithemba ukuphuma nabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izikhathi eziningi la madoda angasheshe akwazi ukuzinikela kowesifazane oyedwa.
UMathe: Awu, kungani kufanele abe? Banezinketho eziningi kakhulu zendlela nabo bonke abesifazane abangabodwa ngaphandle lapho bazimisele ukuphuma nabo. Abaningi besifazane eNew York baqala ukwehlisa lokho abakufunayo ngempela kumuntu nje ukuze babe nokuphila okuphola. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthi owesifazane abe nomuntu eNew York City ukuwugcina engavamile futhi aqiniseke ukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu onentshisekelo kuye uyaqonda ukuthi uthandana nabanye abantu.
Tamsen: Lokhu kufezekisa izinhloso ezimbili. Ngokushesha unikeza umlayezo kumfana ukuthi amanye amadoda anesithakazelo kuye, okumqinisekisa yena nesithakazelo sakhe kuye. Okwesibili, amadoda afuna ukuncintisana ngokuqondene nokubhekwa kwabesifazane. Ngokumtshela ukuthi ungomunye wabafana abaningi abafuna ukumnakekela, kuzomenza afune ukuhamba kahle futhi azame kanzima.
Zingaphi izindawo ezinhle kakhulu zokuhlangana nabantu abakhulu eNew York?
I-Tamsen : Ngincoma izindawo ezingenakulinganiswa: I- Central Park imjaho yezinja, ama-Whole Foods, namaqembu asebenzayo. Izenzakalo zosizo kanye namaqembu ezisebenzi zokuzithandela nawo aphezulu. I-Chelsea Piers neHarry's Cafe eWall Street nazo zindawo ezinomusa kakhulu.
Zingaphi izindawo ezinhle kakhulu zokuhlangana nabesifazane abakhulu eNew York?
UMat: Ngiyathanda isiteji sefashini kanye ne- West Village , kanye neminyango yezithokozi kulezi zintathu B: iBloomingdales, iBergdorf Goodman, neBarneys.
Njengabadlali bokudlala, ungaba yini amaphutha okuthandana nobudlelwane obuvamile obona abantu besenza?
UTamsen uthi amadoda enza amaphutha alandelayo:
- Abazilandeli
- Babuza imibuzo mayelana nesidlo sothando sowesifazane
- Balahlekelwe ikhono lokuba yi-chivalrous
- Abaxhumana kahle
- Kungaba khona ngokomzwelo akutholakali
UMat uthi abesifazane benza amaphutha alandelayo:
- Babiza abantu kuqala
- Balala namadoda maduze kakhulu
- Bacela lo mfana ukuthi achaze ubuhlobo
- Zitholakala kakhulu
- Bavumela konke ukuba kube ngokomthetho womuntu
Ulungele ukuphuma ngalolo suku manje? I-Splurge kwenye yezindawo zokudlela ezithandana kakhulu zedolobhana, noma uma usesabelomali, zama eyodwa yalezi zingu- 5 zedethi yamanani eshibhile ku-NYC .