Konke Okudingeka Ukwazi Ngayo Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi Ungumuntu Omdala Wamahostela
Kubantu abaningi abahambahamba emgwaqeni, kufika isikhathi lapho uqala ukububula kuwe, "ndoda, ngiyabadala kakhulu emahostela." Kuvame ukuza emva kokulala okungapheli kakhulu futhi usuke ufisa ukufuna ihhotela elidala elidala lezinkanyezi ezine ukuze uzizwe uphinde uphinde uzizwe. Ngakho-ke ngenkathi abanye abahamba ngezinyawo bezogcina banqume ukusuka emibhedeni yokulala nokulala namakamelo ajwayelekile, abanye abanakho okuningi kulolu daba.
Kungenxa yokuthi, yebo, ezinye izindwendwe zinemingcele yobudala.
Kungani Amahostela Anayo Imingcele Yeminyaka?
Kubonakala sengathi kuhle kakhulu, akunjalo? Ingabe amahostela afuna ukwamukela abahambi bazo zonke ubudala? Abafuni imali yomuntu wonke? Awu, ngeke umangale ukuzwa ukuthi ngokuvamile yihostela zenkampani ezinomthetho wokunciphisa iminyaka. Lokhu kunengqondo, noma kunjalo: amahostela amaningi eqembu azoba nesigalo esakhiwe endaweni yokuhlala, ngakho abafuni ukuba izingane zigijime futhi zingase zizame ukuphuza utshwala. Kulesi simo, uzothola ukuthi ihostela ivumela kuphela ngaphezulu kwe-18s (noma ngabe yimuphi umnyaka wokuphuza ngokomthetho ) ukuhlala.
Imingcele yobudala engaphezulu, ibuye futhi futhi, ngokuvamile ihlala emahostela eqembu. Bathanda ukuba nomkhathi othile ezindaweni zabo, ngakho-ke bafuna ukugcina wonke umuntu ngaphakathi kobudala obudala. Ngiye ngabona izindawo ezivinjelwe ezingaphezu kuka-40s, futhi ngisho nombhangqwana uvimbela noma ubani oneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-30!
Ingabe Imikhawulo Yeminyaka Yase Hostel Iphoqelelwe?
Angikaze ngibone ihostela igcizelela umkhawulo wabo yobudala kumhambi. Endleleni enkulu enkulu eMpumalanga Yurophu ngathatha isoka lami, sahlala ezindaweni eziningana ezavinjelwa ezingaphezu kuka-30, kanti yena (oneminyaka engama-36 ubudala) akazange aphinde ambulale. Baze bathatha ikhophi yepasipoti yakhe futhi bangasho lutho.
Kodwa-ke, ngizosho ukuthi ubonakala esemncane ngenxa yobudala bakhe, ngakho-ke i-mileage yakho ingahluka.
Uma kukhona ihostele ethile ofa ukuhlala kuyo, kodwa ingaphezu kwemingcele yobudala, akukho lutho olulimazayo ekuhambeni kwalo ngoba cishe uzoba kuhle - nje ube nehostela yokulondoloza esilungele engqondweni yakho uma kwenzeka ' siphenduke. Uma, noma kunjalo, ungaphansi kweminyaka engu-18, ngizokwazi ukucaca noma kuphi nganomkhawulo osemncane, ngoba cishe ngeke ukwazi ukungena.
Ungayitshela kanjani ukuthi i-Hostel inomkhawulo weminyaka?
Kulula - uzokwazi ukutshela uma ubhala ihostele yakho . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi iwebhusayithi yokubhuka enquma ukuyisebenzisa, ubuke incazelo ephelele yehostele neminye yemithetho, futhi izokutshela ukuthi kunomkhawulo weminyaka noma cha.
Ingabe Ubudala Bunciphisa Into Ehle Noma Enhle?
Kutholakala ngombono wakho wokubuka. Ezinye izinzuzo zokuba neminyaka yobudala zifaka isiqiniseko sokuthi uzochitha ubusuku nabantu abangezinhlobo ezifanayo - akekho ofuna ukuchitha ubusuku ekamelweni lokulala nezingane eziningana ezingaphansi kweminyaka emihlanu ( okwenzekile kimi eSingapore), futhi nakanjani bekukhona amanye amakamelo okulala lapho ngangihlala khona namadoda amadala angama-creepy engangingathanda ukube ngingekho. Uma unethemba lokuthi uzohlangana nomuntu ohambweni lwakho, uzoba nethuba lokuhlangana nomuntu oseduze nendawo yakho kwenye yalezi hostele.
Ukukhathazeka okuyinhloko ukuthi akubandakanyi abantu abavela ezizindeni ezahlukene, abanokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukile kokuphila. Abanye abantu abapholile kunazo zonke engiye ngahlangana emahostela babeneminyaka engama-70 ubudala asebeneminyaka eyishumi ehamba phambili bezungeza iplanethi.
Ingabe Uke Uze Ukhulile Ukuze Uhlale Amahostela?
Uyazi impendulo yalokhu: akunjalo! Ngihlale emahostela nabasemuva abaneminyaka engama-90 ubudala, futhi babethanda ukuthola ithuba lokuhlangana nabantu abasha befake nxazonke emhlabeni. Futhi izivakashi ezincane zazingaphezu kokukwamukela futhi zijabule ukuhamba nabantu abadala.
Kodwa-ke, ngizosho ukuthi uma uhlela ukuhamba njalo, uzothola ukuthi emva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha zokuhlala emahostela, uzophelela ukuthanda okuthile. Amahostela amnandi ngokulondoloza imali nokuhlangana nabantu, kodwa ngemva kokuba nezinyanga nezinyanga zokulala ebusuku, uqala ukufisa ukunethezeka okuncane, ubumfihlo obunye, nokuthula nokuthula.
Abaningi bezihambi bazizwa benecala ngalokhu - njengokungathi 'abasihambi bangempela' uma bengasakwazi ukuhlala emiphongolweni bese bekhetha izinketho ezishibhile ngaso sonke isikhathi - kodwa ungazivumeli uwele kulokhu ingqondo. Ukuguqulwa nokukhula kubalulekile, ngakho-ke uma uqala ukuzizwa sengathi amahostele angase abe kakhulu kuwe, akukho namahloni ekukhetheni indlu yezihambi, i-Airbnb, noma ihhotela kanyekanye, uma kungenjalo kuze kube phakade.
Ukuqedela, ngizosho ukuthi imingcele yobudala emahostela ayivamile. Ngifinyelele kubo izikhathi ezingamatshumi amabili kuphela eminyakeni engaphezu kwemihlanu (nakuba ngizovuma ukuthi ngigwema amahostela eqembu ...), ngakho akuyona into okudingayo ukubeka isikhathi esithile esibalulekile sokukhathazeka mayelana uhamba. Funda incazelo yehostele ngaphambi kokuba ubhale, ulinganise izinzuzo nezindleko zemikhawulo yobudala uma unayo, futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ujabule!
Lesi sihloko sihlelwe futhi sibuyekezwa nguLauren Juliff.