Iyini i-Wedding Wedding - futhi Kungani Ayadume kakhulu?
Umshado ozofika kuyo umshado owenziwe endaweni eseduzane nawe. Ngokuvamile, umshado oya khona kanye neholide elilandelayo ligujwa endaweni efanayo yokuvakasha.
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Iyini umshado oya kuyo? Zibonise emoyeni ofudumele, othakazelisayo nabangani nomndeni ojabulayo ukugcoba kokubili emva kokuphindaphinda ngesikhathi sokuhamba. Umculo udlala kanye nedili lokudla okuhle kulindeleke.
Yonke imininingwana yomshado, kusukela ekungeneni kuya kumuntu ophethe izimbali kanye nekhekhe, ingahle ihlelwe endaweni yokuvakasha ukuze ivumelane nambitha yakho. Ngemuva komkhosi womshado, awudingi ukushiya indawo enhle ngokumangalisayo ngokushesha ... uma ukhetha ukuba ne-honeymoon yakho lapho.
Iseluleko esivela ku-Expert Wedding Wedding
Umcebisi womshado nomlobi weMishadings for Dummies uMarcy L. Blum uphawula ukuphakama emshadweni, lapho umbhangqwana ukamema khona futhi osondelene nabo eholidini. Umkhosi uqobo, ukwamukela, kanye nesikhonyane sonke senzeke ngeviki elide, kanye neminye imisebenzi yemishado eya endaweni eyalelwe ukuletha ababukeli bezemidlalo.
"Impelasonto yokushada yosuku olunezinsuku ezine ingadla okungenani ukudliwa nokuthola abantu abangu-150-200 ehhotela elinethezeka eNew York," kusho uBlum. "Ngokwesibonelo, endaweni yokuhlala eJamica, kungase kudilize u-$ 40,000 ukumemeza imibhangqwana engu-20 ukuba ichithe izinsuku ezine emshadweni oya khona.
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Isimiso somshado oya khona ngokuvamile sibiza izivakashi ezimenywe ukuba zikhokhele izindiza zezindiza kanye negumbi lehhotela. Umakoti nomkhwenyana bathatha ithebhu yalo mkhosi, ukudla kwezivakashi neziphuzo, nemikhosi eyengeziwe emshadweni oya khona.
Kuhlakaniphile ukuthi umbhangqwana uhlela umshado ozofika kuwo ukuxoxa ngesilinganiso esinqunyiwe sokubhuka amakamelo amaningi futhi uhlole nezindiza zezindiza ukucacisa ukuthi ngabe amaqembu ezindiza zezindiza atholakala yini.
Ngomshado owodwa oya kuyo, i-Blum ithumele abamenywa uhlu lwemibuzo ngaphambi kwesikhangiso ukunquma izithakazelo ezikhethekile zomuntu ngamunye ukuze wakhe uhambo. Phakathi nezinsuku ezintathu kunamathuba okuba bahambe nge-snorkel, i-SCUBA, bahlanganyele emncintiswaneni we-tennis, badlale ibhola le-volleyball yase-beach, futhi bathathe izifundo ngokudansa kumculo we-reggae.
Umbhangqwana ohlela umshado oya khona ngaphandle kosizo lomxhumanisi angasebenza ne-concierge yehhotela, umhleli womshado noma umhleli wedili. Shayela i-Tourist Office yendawo ukuze ufunde izidingo zomthetho zokushada endaweni. Ezinye iziqhingi zaseCaribbean zidinga ukuhlala ngaphambi komkhosi kanye nobufakazi bokuba yisakhamuzi, ukuqedela imibhalo eminingana, kanye nemali ebizwa ngokuthi yiyo.
Ukushada Kwendawo Akuyona Yomuntu Wonke
Abashade nabesifazane abaye bazi njalo ukuthi bazofuna ukugubha umshado wabo edolobheni lakubo, mhlawumbe bakhuluma izifungo esontweni elifanayo noma esinagogeni lapho abazali babo noma ngisho nogogo nomkhulu beshade, ngeke bafune ukuphuma edolobheni.
Imibhangqwana engajabuli ukuhamba akufanele ibe nomshado oya khona, noma.
Futhi akufanele imibhangqwana ebuka uhlu lwabavakashi bayo futhi yazi ukuthi abantu abaningi ababakhathazayo ngeke bakwazi ukuya emndenini ongaphandle ngenxa yezimali, izinkinga zesikhathi, izibopho zomndeni, noma ezinye izizathu. Kodwa uma umshado ozofika uzwakala njengempendulo yemithandazo yakho, hamba!