Umbuzo Othakazelisayo Wokuzikhethela
Akukatholakali kakhulu, le ncwadi yavela kumama kamyeni. Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ubani okhokhela i- honeymoon :
Indodana yami ishade ezinyangeni ezingu-2 futhi kulobubusuku ngitshele ukuthi i-honeymoon izobiza imali engu-$ 10,000. Uphikelela ukuthi abazali bomkhwenyana bayakhokha lesi siko. Angikaze ngizwe ngalokhu. Mina nomyeni wami ngeke sikwazi ukubhekana nalezi zindleko ngalolu suku oluphelile, futhi sinomuzwa wokuthi ngisho noma lokhu kuyiqiniso, into enomqondo okwenzekile ngabe ngabe ukusazisa ngonyaka odlule, izinyanga ezingu-6 ezedlule, hhayi izinyanga ezimbili ngaphambi kokuthi umshado.
Ingabe i-honeymoon ngempela imithwalo yabazali bomyeni?
Ngangihlale ngicabanga ukuthi umbhangqwana usindiswe ngenjabulo yabo futhi wahamba endaweni ethile. Angifuni lokhu kubhubhise ukuthi yini okufanele kube yisikhathi esithokozelayo wonke umndeni, kodwa lokhu kuphazamisa kakhulu kithi.
Impendulo:
Sicela ungakhathazeki ngenxa yalokhu. Kulolu suku nosuku, akukho mithetho ebekelwe ukuthi ubani okhokhela umthethosivivinywa we- honeymoon .
Kodwa-ke, uma umakoti ehileleke ngokujulile emininingwaneni eminingana yokuhlela komshado, umkhwenyana uvame ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngokwakhe ukuhlela - kodwa hhayi ngempela ukukhokhela - honeymoon (nge input umakoti, ngaphandle uma kungcono isimanga honeymoon).
Ngokuvamile umbhangqwana uzokwenzela i-honeymoon ngokwabo, ikakhulukazi uma abazali bethatha ithebhu yomshado.
Njengoba kubalulekile ukuthatha inhlanhla , abashadile abangakwazi ukukhokhela imali ebiza kakhulu banokukhethwa okunye okuthengwayo . Ngaphezu kwalokho, bangakwazi ukubambezela ukubalekela kwabo, ukuthatha okufutshane kunokuba kuhlelwe, ukushayela esikhundleni sokuhamba, noma uvakashele indawo ngesikhathi sokugcina ukuze ugcine imali. Futhi uma behlanjululwe ngempela ukuze bakhiphe imali futhi bazimisele ukudela ezinye izinto eziduduzayo, bangakwazi ukuhlela isihlobo esisha eshibhile ngempela.
Ukutholaphi Izimali Zama-honeymoon:
Enye indlela yokukhokha izindleko zezinyosi ngokubhalisa izimbhangqwana zezipho zokuhamba kwi-Honeymoon Bridal Registry.
Ezinye izindlela imibhangqwana ingakhokha isikhathi sokuthi:
- Cash kusuka Wedding. Ama-envelopes of cash angasiza ukumboza izindleko zakho zenyanga. Kodwa uma unomshado omkhulu, kuzodingeka ukwandise.
- Ukulondolozwa. Uma umshado izinyanga eziningi kude, qala i-akhawunti yokulondoloza ezinikezele.
- Amakhadi esikweletu. Qala ukusebenzisa ikhadi lesikweletu elinikeza amaphuzu kukho konke ukuthenga. I-Capital One Venture Card inhle kakhulu emibhangqwaneni ehamba phesheya kwezilwandle, ngoba ayikhokhisi imali yokuthengiswa kwamanye amazwe futhi ungakwazi ukuqoqa amaphuzu bese uwasebenzisa ukusula izindleko zokuhamba.
- Ukuboleka kweBhange. Nakuba amazinga ezithakazelo aphansi, akusilo umqondo omuhle ukuzibophezela ngesikweletu ekuqaleni komshado.
- Isikweleti. Ucabanga ukuthi ungathola abantu abangabazi ukuthi bakusize ngezindleko zakho zomshado ngokusebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana?
Yiziphi Abantu Abangempela Abacabangela Ngokukhokhela I-honeymoon:
Amazwana we-Reader (manje avaliwe) kulo mbuzo we-etiquette:
- "Ngifunde ukuthi umkhwenyana nomndeni wakhe banesibopho sezinyosi, hhayi ukukhuluma konke umkhwenyana nezimbali. Ngizwakala sengathi ufuna omunye umuntu avumelane nawe ngokuphuma ekukhokheni umthwalo wakho wemfanelo. Umndeni womakoti unamathele umthamo omkhulu, umndeni omncane ongayenza umndeni wakhe uyakunqotshwa. " - H
- "Ukuthi umndeni womlobokazi ukhokhele umshado futhi umkhwenyana nomndeni wakhe bathatha ithebhu ukuze kusetshenziswe izinkathi zokuzalwa zonyaka, lapho imibhangqwana ishada ngesikhathi esincane. Imindeni isakwazi ukuvumelana nokulandela leyo migomo, kodwa kunezinkinga eziningi manje , ikakhulukazi njengoba iningi lamabhangqwana manje lihamba ngaphansi komthethosivivinywa womshado wawo futhi azixhomeki kubazali. " - Uju
- "Kuzwakala sengathi bakunikeze imithetho eminingi." Futhi lokho okushiwo yizinkokhelo zokuzalwa ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwesikhashana, kodwa umthetho engiwunamathele ngawo, uma uya emshadweni, unike isipho. Uma ungafuni thenga usizo lokuxhasa imali yabo yokunciphisa izindleko eziphansi, wenze umnikelo ngamagama abo ku-charity abayisekelayo bese ufaka imininingwane ekhadini oyithumelayo. Khumbula ukuthi imibhangqwana iyakhumbula uma ikhuni izivakashi, futhi 'Ufuna izinto zihambe ngezinyawo ezingalungile.' - Ali
- "Lokho kuyinto engafanele kakhulu engiyizwile! Kulolu suku nosuku, akukho into enjengoba abazali bomakoti noma umyeni kufanele bakhokhele noma iyiphi ingxenye yomshado. Uma befisa ukwenza kanjalo, kuhle kodwa uma hhayi, kufanele kube yibo kuphela umthwalo wemfanelo wabashadile abakhetha ukuthi bafuna inhlanhla enhle kakhulu abangakwazi ukuyikhokhela! " - Señorita
- "Indodana yakho ishibhile futhi ihlambalaza bobabili uyise nonina. Cabanga nje ukuthi uzofunani kuwe ngokulandelayo." - UJohn
- "Lapho ngishada, abazali bami bakhokhela umshado futhi mina nomyeni wami omusha sasikhokhela imali yokuthola umshado ngemali esiyithole emakhadweni ethu omshado. Sibuye sikhokhele izimbali, amabhande namafutha. ukudla kwasekuseni, bagcwalise imindeni yabo izimemo futhi basize ukukhokhela izitembu. Uma umakoti nomkhwenyana beyokhathazeka ngomshado futhi bayeke ukukhathazeka ngomshado engiwuqinisekisa ukuthi imishado eminingi izohlala. " - Beverly
- "Uma ufuna i-$ 10,000 yohlobo lwezinyosi, yiyeke ukuzibamba futhi uzikhokhele wena. Mina nomama asisondelene futhi angizange ngikhulume nobaba eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-5. Umyeni wami ozayo uzobhekana nathi ukukhokhela umshado kanye nenjabulo ndawonye. Lolu usuku olusha, abantu. Akuwona "umthwalo wemfanelo" wabazali ukukhokhela noma yini. Thola nayo. " - Angela
- "Awukwazi ukukhetha nokukhetha amasiko ofuna ukunamathela kumshado nasemishadweni. Uma umuntu efuna ukusebenzisa amasiko okuqala, i-honeymoon ikhokhelwe umkhwenyana, hhayi abazali bakhe." Isiko "esisha umndeni womkhwenyana ukhokha kubonakala sengathi uyathandwa kakhulu, ngenxa yezizathu ezicacile. Kodwa uma befuna ukusho ukuthi kungokwemvelo abazali ukuba bakhokhe, ngakho-ke ngithi masinamathele kwezinye izinkolelo; njengokungathi singabantwana kuqala, njengokuthi ube nomsebenzi wangempela ukuze ukwazi ukusekela umndeni kuqala, njengokungathi ungenawo isikweletu ongakwazi ukuwukhokhela. Uma izingane zikhetha ukuthi yiziphi izinkolelo zama-traditions, nami nginjalo! " - Ubaba Wezinsuku eziyisithupha