Ulimi lwama-Couple okuzosetshenziswa ku-Vow Ukuvuselela
Uthola kanjani amagama ukuveza uthando lwakho oluhlala njalo kumlingani wakho wokuphila uma uvuselela izithembiso zakho emphakathini? Ulimi olusha lokuvuselela lungaba mnandi, luzwela, lunzulu futhi luhle kakhulu ezindaweni.
Ngezinye izikhathi zokuvuselela izithembiso, amagama anganikezwa ngumuntu osemthethweni, noma ngabe ilungu lezefundisi noma umngane wakhe noma umngane womndeni. Kwabanye, lo mbhangqwana unikeza eyabo. Njengoba ukuvuselelwa kwesifungo akuyona into ebophezela ngokomthetho, ulimi lungabonakalisa ubuntu bakho nobuciko bakho.
Ayikho imininingwane edingekayo ngesikhathi sokuvuselelwa kwesifungo futhi ukhululekile ukwenza ngokwezifiso ulimi - kanye nomkhosi - njengoba uthanda.
Indlela Yokuqala Ukubhala I-Vow Yakho Ukuvuselelwa
Beka isikhathi sokuthula ukuze ube yedwa nemicabango yakho. Uma kungathuli ekhaya, vakashela ilabhulali yakho yasendaweni noma isitolo sekhofi nge-laptop yakho noma ipeni nedatha. Amagama angeke afike ngokushesha, kodwa kunezindlela zokuba uqale ukugeleza. Amazwi okuvuselelwa kwesifungo angaba isikhathi eside noma esifushane njengoba umbhangqwana ukhetha.
Cabanga emuva eminyakeni oye wachitha ngayo omunye nomunye. Yiziphi izinto ezivelele, nezikhathi ezazisho kakhulu kuwe? Ungase ufune ukuvuma izingane zakho nezinye izinto ezifezekile zomshado wakho, kanye nokukhuluma ngezigameko kanye nokunqoba kwesibopho sakho.
I-Hack eyodwa ewusizo ukwenza uhlu, uqale ngonyaka owahlangana ngawo okokuqala. Akuwona wonke umuntu embuthanweni wakho ongase azi le ndaba, futhi lesi yisikhathi esihle sokuxoxa ngaso.
Nikeza imininingwane: Uneminyaka emingaki? Yingaki inkathi? Wachitha kanjani isikhathi ndawonye. Yayiyini ukubonakala kwakho kokuqala? Uyakhumbula ukuthi yini owagqoke kokubili futhi uhambe kuphi ngosuku lwakho lokuqala? Yini eyokukhanga kuqala kumlingani wakho?
Bese uqhubekela phambili esilandelayo esilandelayo oye wafinyelela ndawonye.
Ingabe ikhona indaba ehlekisayo noma enhle ukutshela ukuthi uqale nini? Uma uligcina kufushane futhi kuze kube iphuzu, uzogcina izilaleli zakho zihambelane.
Ulimi ekuvuselelweni kwesifungo sakho kufanele lubonise impilo oye wahlala ndawonye kanye nemizwa yakho ngomunye nomunye. Kulungile ukuba nomzwelo, futhi ngisho noma u-mushy, uma kungukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngomlingani wakho.
Thola Ukuphefumulelwa Kwamazwi Abanye
Amazwi akho akudingeki abe yingqangi uma nje evela enhliziyweni. Ukuphefumula kuvame kakhulu, ezincwadini zothando izinkondlo kanye izingcaphuno ezidumile futhi ezihlakaniphile ngezihloko ezahlukene ezingabonisa imizwelo yakho:
- Luyini uthando?
- Emshadweni
- Izidumi Zisho ...
- Kissing
- Uthando lokuqala
- Amazwi amathenda
- Ukuthandana nokuthandana
Uma ungatholi amagama anakho kulawo angcaphuno, mhlawumbe abawuthathi ngempela umoya womshado wakho. Abashadile abahlala ukuhleka bangathola imibono kulezi zingcaphuno ezihlekisayo . Mhlawumbe ucaphuna injabulo yokuzilibazisa okuhlanganyelwe noma ukuchitha isikhathi kungenza amagama akho aphile. Isibonelo, imibhangqwana esebenze isikhathi ndawonye ukuhlola umhlaba ingase ifune ukufaka isicatshulwa ekuhambeni .
Futhi Bheka:
Indlela Yokubhala Nokukhulula I-Great Wedding Toast
Isibonelo Sokuvuselela Ulimi Lokuvuselela
Uma unamathela ekuqapheleni kwakho ukuvuselelwa kwesifungo, ungase uthole ukuthi kuyasiza ukusebenzisa isampula elandelayo njengesisekelo.
Yenza ngokwezifiso njengoba ubona kufanelekile.
[faka igama lokuqala lomlingani],
Ngimi futhi futhi ngaphambi kwakho
Ukuvuselela izithembiso zethu zomshado.
Ngithembisa ukuhlala nginamandla othandweni lwami,
Ubumnene ekunakekeleni kwami,
Futhi engapheli ekuthembekeni kwami.
Egameni lakho konke esikudale ndawonye
Futhi sonke esisazoba khona,
Nginikela isandla sami
Futhi inhliziyo yami
Njengomlingani wakho, umthandi wakho, nomngane wakho wokuphila.
Ngemuva kokuvuselelwa kweVow
Ezinye imibhangqwana ithatha amazwi abawakhulume futhi ziguqula zibe yi-keepsake kamuva. Umbhalo ungadluliselwa ephepheni elihle, ufakwe emgodini wokuhlobisa, futhi uzikhukhumeze endlini yakho endaweni yokuhlonipha.