Ukuphepha kwabesifazane eNdiya sekuyisihloko esikhulu sokuxoxisana nokukhathazeka, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwabahambi besifazane abangaphandle bevakashela leli zwe. Ngeshwa, ukungabi nokuqwashisa nokuqonda isiko lamaNdiya ngokuvamile ngokungazi ukuthi abesifazane besifazane bahlose ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi. Le ncwadi igxile emfundweni mayelana namasiko aseNdiya nokuvimbela amaphutha amasiko. Kuyinto insiza efundisayo neyigugu ukuthi bonke abesifazane bezinye izizwe beza eNdiya kufanele bafunde.
Mayelana noMlobi
Umbhali wencwadi, uJD Viharini, ungowesifazane oyedwa waseMelika ohlala eNdiya iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-8. Waqala ukuvakashela iNdiya ngo-1980 futhi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi uye wahamba kakhulu kulo lonke izwe ngokwakhe, esebenzisa wonke amamodi kanye namakilasi ezokuthutha (kusukela "Ritz kuya emigodini", njengoba esho).
Ngakho-ke, isipiliyoni sakhe simbeka esimweni esihle kakhulu sokugunyaza ukubhala incwadi ngokuphepha kwabesifazane eNdiya. Akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi uyazi ukuthi uhamba kanjani wonke umuntu e-India njengowesifazane wesinye isizwe, uye wakwazi ukuqonda kahle isiko lamaNdiya nokuthi izwe lisebenza kanjani kuwo wonke amazinga. Lokhu kubonakala ngokufunda ibhulogi yakhe ethandwayo. Uphinde wabhalwa incwadi yamasiko yezivakashi eNdiya, eye yamukelwa kahle.
Yini Engaphakathi Kwencwadi?
Ukujabulela iNdiya: Ukuphepha Kwabesifazane kunamakhasi angu-80. Iqala ngesahluko esithi "Mayelana NamaNdiya", ekhuluma ngengqondo jikelele yamadoda aseNdiya nendlela abaziphatha ngayo.
Iqokomisa inkinga yenkambiso yamasiko ehluke kakhulu eNdiya uma kuqhathaniswa nezingxenye ezingaphansi kokuzigcina zomhlaba, okudingeka ukuthi abahambi baqaphele futhi bahlele ukuziphatha kwabo ngokufanele. Lokhu kuhlanganisa izindinganiso zokugqoka nokuxhumana phakathi kobulili. Iphinde ichaze ngomqondo wokufaneleka wokuthi amadoda amaningi aseNdiya kufanele enze noma yini ayithandayo nabesifazane, futhi indlela ekhohlisayo abesifazane besifazane abavela kwamanye amazwe abavezwa kumaphephandaba.
Le ncwadi iyaqhubeka ngezahluko mayelana nama-nuances amasiko aseNdiya (kufaka phakathi udumo nenhlonipho), izinto ezibalulekile zokuphepha nokuvimbela eNdiya (kufaka phakathi amathiphu amaningi abalulekile mayelana nendlela yokusebenza nokusebenzisana), nokuthi yini okufanele ugqoke. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi umbhali uthi ngenkathi ecwaninga le ncwadi, "ukhulume nabesifazane abaningi mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo namadoda aseNdiya. Labo abangazange bahloniphe izindinganiso zokugqoka zaseNdiya cishe babika izinkinga eziningi ngokuhlukunyezwa."
Le ncwadi iqukethe nesahluko mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze lapho ufika kuqala eNdiya, izinhlobo zezindawo okufanele ufanele futhi ungafanele uhlale kuzo, umqondo wobumfihlo eNdiya, izinkinga zocansi, nokuthi yini okufanele ukwenze uma uhlukunyezwa ngokocansi.
Iseluleko sokubhekana nokuhlukumeza siwusizo ikakhulu ngoba iqiniso lokuthi abesifazane abaningi bezinye izizwe abazi ukuthi bangasabela kanjani ekuhlukunyezweni ngokobulili kubantu baseNdiya. Bazovame ukushaqeka, bangayinaki, noma bayiphathe kalula bese beyihleka. Ukukhuluma ngokuhlangenwe nakho, lokhu akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nayo, kanti futhi le ncwadi iqinisekisa lokhu. Amadoda aseNdiya angalindeli ukuphikiswa okukhulu futhi azovame ukukhomba abesifazane ababukeka bengenalutho.
Imicabango yami
Ukuphepha kwabesifazane kuyisihloko esibucayi, futhi ngilindele ukuthi abanye abantu bangathanda ukushayela iseluleko sencwadi njengesisulu sokusola.
Kodwa-ke, njengoba umbhali ethi, "Ukugqoka nokuziphatha ngokuzithoba ngokwesiko akusiqiniseki ngokusobala ukuthi abahlukunyezwa bayecala. Labo abacabanga ukuthi abaqondi nje isiko."
Abesifazane abaningi bezinye izizwe abafika eNdiya ababoni isidingo sokugqoka ngokuzenzekelayo, ikakhulukazi uma bevakashela amadolobha angaphandle futhi babone abesifazane baseNdiya begqoke izicathulo, iziketi, nezikhwama ezingenamikhono. Noma kunjalo, njengoba incwadi ibonisa ngokucacile, lokhu akubonakali izindinganiso eziningi kakhulu. Futhi, ekugcineni, ngisho noma ungahlanganyeli nala madoda, zikhona yonke indawo. Abantu abanjengezinceku kanye nabashayeli bonke bavela ezizindeni zendabuko.
Ngathola Ukujabulela iNdiya: Ukuphepha Kwabesifazane ukuba kube yinkimbinkimbi enhle kakhulu, eqondakalayo futhi ehlakaniphile. Igcwele imininingwane egcwele yokuqonda.
Ngokufanayo nomlobi, ngiphinde ngihlala eNdiya iminyaka engaba yisishiyagalombili. Ngenza lokho okufundiswa yilo ncwadi, futhi nginomuzwa wokuthi kuhlanganiswe konke engikufundile phakathi nesikhathi sami eNdiya futhi kubonakala kahle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kanye nomlobi, ngiyanconywa ngamadoda aseNdiya ngezikhathi ezimbalwa zokugqoka ngendlela efanele - ngakho-ke nakanjani kuhlonishwa!
Ukujabulela iNdiya: Ukuphepha Kwabesifazane kutholakala e-Amazon e-US nase-Amazon eNdiya. (Qaphela ukuthi Ukuhamba Ngesibindi eNdiya: Okuthi Wonke Owesifazane Kumelwe Akwazi Ngokuphepha Kwamuntu Kuyi -Version Ebuyekeziwe YeBhuku ).
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