Isiteji sezinyosi emshadweni siqala ngokushesha nje lapho umshado uphela. Ngokuvame ukwanda ngesikhathi sezinyosi, lapho umbhangqwana unesikhathi futhi unesifiso sokugxila ngokuphelele komunye nomunye futhi uvimbele wonke umhlaba.
Ukuhlangana, uthando, nokuthandana, kanye nezocansi njalo, yizimpawu zesiteji sezinyosi. Kanti futhi isikhathi lapho imibhangqwana eminingi isendaweni yabo yangempela futhi ibheke kakhulu.
Akukho nhlobo okuthakazelisayo kulo mbhangqwana omusha kunomunye nomunye, futhi bangase bakhethe ukuthunjwa kwenyoni lapho bekwazi ukuzithokozisa khona ngasese ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
Ngesikhathi sesithandane, abangane nomndeni bangase baqale ukuzizwa benganakwa njengoba lo mbhangqwana osondelene nawo ungabafaki. Ukuziphatha okuvamile.
Akuyona Yonke Ngocansi
Isiteji sezinyosi yisikhathi sokuthola, uma ufunda izinto ezintsha mayelana nomlingani wakho. Ngokuvamile, uzizwa uvinjelwe nje uma usenkampanini yakho . Kodwa kungase kube khona umzuzwana osizayo, lapho kukushaya ngokujulile: Lo ngumuntu engifunge ukuthi angichitha impilo yami yonke. Umlingani wakho unamaphutha, uyaqaphela. Njengoba kunjalo! Ukwamukela lokho kuyingxenye yokulungisa impilo yakho entsha ndawonye.
Lesi sigaba sibuye futhi lapho uqala ukwenza izinqumo ezinkulu ongase ungakhulumanga ngaphambi komshado. Futhi yisikhathi lapho uqala ukwenza imikhuba futhi uqalise imikhuba ezochaza umshado wakho iminyaka ezayo.
I-Honeymoon Stage ihlala isikhathi eside kangakanani?
Ngokuvamile, isiteji sobudlelwano bobudlelwane buhlala okungenani ngonyaka. Ngokusho kwendaba e-The New York Times:
"Abacwaningi baseMelika nabaseYurophu bahola abantu abangu-1,761 abashadile futhi bahlala emshadweni eminyakeni engaba ngu-15. Okutholwe kwacaca ukuthi: abasanda kushada bajabulela injabulo enkulu eqhubekayo iminyaka emibili nje kuphela. babuyela lapho baqala khona, okungenani ngokujabula. "
Khona-ke ezinye izinto ezikhathazayo ezifana nomsebenzi, izinkinga zomndeni, izingcindezi zezezimali, kanye nempilo zingase ziqale ukucindezela ilungu elilodwa lo mbhangqwana ukulungisa ukugxila kwakhe kumlingani omusha kwenye indawo. Ngokuvamile lo mbhangqwana uyakwazi ukubuyisela emuva futhi uvuselele ukuxwala kwabo komunye nomunye.
Kweminye imibhangqwana, isiteji sezinyosi sithatha iminyaka emithathu kuya kwemihlanu futhi ngezinye izikhathi isikhathi eside. Ezimweni eziningi, isiteji sezinyosi siyanqamuka kancane kancane futhi sithatha indawo yothando nokujula.
Ukufika kwengane yokuqala, kanye nezidingo kanye nezidingo zalobu buphi obusha, kubonisa njalo ukuphela kwalesi sigaba ebuhlotsheni bomshado.
Gcina i-Flame iphile
Uma ufinyelela iphuzu ebuhlotsheni bakho lapho uzwela khona ukukhathazeka, kunezinto ongayenza ukuze ugcine u-spark uhamba:
- Yithi "ngiyakuthanda" nsuku zonke
- Thumela umbhalo omnandi ukuze uvumele umlingani wakho azi ukuthi ucabanga ngaye
- Phishekela ukuzilibazisa okusha noma imidlalo ndawonye
- Thatha uhlobo oluhlukile lwenyanga
- Bhalisela izifundo zokudansa - bese uhamba!
- Yiba nobusuku obusuku nobusuku bemidlalo
- Thumela izimbali ... ngoba nje
- Sichitha isikhathi; ukungabi khona kwenza inhliziyo ikhule.
- Vow ukuhlola ingxenye ehlukile yedolobha kanye ngenyanga
- Hlela iviki lokuthandana lokugcina ngothando noma isikhathi eside uma ungathatha isikhathi.
Ingabe i-honeymoon ingapheli phakade?
Nakuba imibhangqwana ethile ithi ihlala enyangeni engapheli, akunangqondo ukulindela ukuthi kwenzeke. Nokho, izindaba ezinhle ukuthi zingabuya uma ungalinda kuze kube yilapho izingane zingekho endlini eminyakeni engama-20 noma ngaphezulu - bese ungathola konke uthando nokuhleka, ubulili nokushona kwelanga kubuya empilweni yakho.