Imidlo yokudla yaseSouth kanye nemikhuba yetafula isetshenziselwa ukudla okusemthethweni, njengalapho uhlangana nabazali bakho be-okokuqala, amaholide, uma uhamba njalo njalo ngeSonto sakusihlwa. Kukhona isethi esiyingqayizivele yemikhuba esetshenziselwa ukuqhubela ibhande. Imikhuba jikelele isasebenza.
Sisezinye izikhathi sisebenzise lezi zindlela ekudleni okusemthethweni eNingizimu, kodwa mhlawumbe hhayi kakhulu uma uletha usuku lwakho ku-Applebees noma ngisho nasezinkonzweni zeSonto.
Izimo ezithile, njengemishado nokudla okugubhayo, namanje zihlelekile.
Amathebula, Izinkampani Zomcimbi Nezinsuku Ezihleliwe
- I-RSVP isho ukuthi udinga ukuphendula isimemo. Kuhlonipha kakhulu i-RSVP hhayi ukukhansela kamuva noma ukungazinaki isimemo ngokuphelele. Uma usu-RSVP, kufanele ukhansele kuphela uma kunokuphuthumayo noma ukugula.
- Bonisa phezulu ngesikhathi, kodwa hhayi kusheshe kakhulu. Ukuboniswa kuze kube sesidlweni sakusihlwa noma umcimbi ngaphezulu kwemizuzu engu-10-15 kuqala kuthathwa njengokungcolile.
- Izivakashi kufanele zinikele ekusizeni umnakekeli, kepha abanikazi bendawo akufanele neze bazibophe izivakashi zabo ngokubabuza usizo. Izivakashi akufanele zimelele ekusizeni.
- Umnumzane njalo usiza owesifazane ngakwesokunene sakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthandana noma cha, njengoba ehlezi noma ephuma esihlalweni sakhe.
- Omunye akufanele athathe isihlalo kuze kube yilapho umama wabo nabanye abadala behlezi.
- Hlala ucela izinto etafuleni, ungafuni. "Ngithethelele, ngicela ungadlulise amazambane," esikhundleni sokuthi "Dlulisa amazambane."
- Ungalokothi ukhulume ngomlomo wakho ugcwele.
- Linda kuze kube yilapho wonke umuntu ekhishwa ukudla.
- Ngokushesha lapho uhlezi, faka i-napkin yakho ethangeni lakho. Uma uvuka ngemva kokuhlezi, faka i-napkin yakho esihlalweni sakho, hhayi ithebula. Ukufaka i-napkin etafuleni akusizi.
- Ungabeki i-silverware engcolile etafuleni letafula. Beka emaphethelweni weplate yakho ukuze ungcolile i-linens ithebula.
- Ungakhethi ingxoxo. Vumela wonke umuntu abe nejika. Ungasebenzisi ulimi olubi. Zama ukubandakanya izivakashi ongazazi kakade kunokukhuluma kuphela nalabo ozenzayo.
- Ungalokothi ubuze ukuthi yini okubizayo, noma ungase ubuze ukuthi kukhona okuthengwe khona.
- Yenza kuphela ukuncoma okuqotho. Kungcono ukuthula ngaphezu kokuncoma okungamanga.
- Ungalokothi ube ngowokugcina ukushiya iqembu. Njalo utshele i-hostess ngiyabonga nokuthi ujabule kusihlwa lapho usuka.
- Shayela umnakekeli wakho ngosuku olulandelayo bese ubatshela ukuthi ujabulele kangakanani iqembu. Okungcono kakhulu, ubhale phansi inothi lokubonga.
Ukuphola
Ukuqomisana nokulingana (akuyona into efanayo) kungesinye sezikhathi lapho abantu baseNingizimu Afrika basebenzise imikhuba yabo. Iningi lala mithetho yokuziphatha lisebenza ekuthandaneni nanoma ubani noma yisiphi isenzo sobulili, kanti amanye aphelelwe yisikhathi. Iningi lisalokhu lenziwa ngezinga elithile.
- Njalo ubheke abesifazane njengabafazi. Baphathwa njengaleyo eNingizimu. Amadoda aseNingizimu ayenamahlonipho futhi ayinganekwane (bona imikhuba ejwayelekile yaseNingizimu ).
- Yiba nesikhathi samadethi nezinkulumo.
- Kuyinto yendabuko yamadoda ukuyala abesifazane uma besesitolo sokudlela. Lokhu kuhluleka, kepha i-belle yeqiniso ingalindela ukuthi indoda ibeke umyalelo.
- Ungalokothi uhlambalaze umndeni wakho wosuku, ikakhulukazi umama wabo. Amadoda aseningizimu ikakhulukazi anesibopho esiqinile kakhulu nonina, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi uhlambalaza kangakanani.
- Indoda yeqiniso ayiyikuziqhenya ngomsebenzi wakhe noma impahla yakhe kuze kube usuku lwakhe. Kunalokho, uzogxila ekufezeni kwakhe.
- Yenza kuphela ukuncoma okuqotho. Kungcono ukuthula ngaphezu kokuncoma okungamanga.
- Indoda ngokuvamile ikhokha. Esikhathini samanje eNingizimu, umuntu ohambisa isimemo ukhokha. Uma owesifazane ebuza umuntu ngaphandle, kungenzeka kulindeleke ukuthi akhokhe. Amanye amadoda aseMelika ngeke asamukele owesifazane okhokhela usuku, kanti abanye besifazane baseSouth bazocasulwa ngokusikisela.
- Londoloza idrama ngezinsuku zakamuva. I-Southerner yangempela ayithwali usuku nosuku kuze kube lula ubudlelwane. Ungalokothi uphakamise isikhwama sakho sokukhishwa kwendlu noma isikweletu somboleki esikoleni ngosuku lokuqala. Gcina izingxoxo zakho ziqhubekele phambili.
- Vala ifoni yakho uma usuphelile ngosuku noma emsebenzini womphakathi. Ngaphandle kokuthi kube yisimo esiphuthumayo, akufanele ukuguqula ukunakwa kwakho kusukela osukwini lwakho.
- Ungakhohlwa ukuphatha abanye kahle. Southerner weqiniso uphatha wonke umuntu kahle. Uma unomusa osukwini lwakho, kodwa umemeza ku-waitstaff, unamathele isichulo somnyango bese uthola i-bartender ikhishwe, usuku lwakho luzoqaphela futhi luzocabangela wena. Yiba nokuthula futhi uhloniphe wonke umuntu.