Indlela Yokuguqulwa Kwokushisa Umuntu Emuva Ezwe Elizimele

Lapho Usalindela Ukushisa

I-Burning Man Caravansary yenzeka phakathi nesonto lokugcina lika-Agasti kulo nyaka (njengoba kunjalo njalo ngonyaka). Kwakugcwele ukufakwa kwemidwebo emangalisayo, umculo omuhle, abantu abalungile, futhi ngokuvamile kwakuyindawo efana nengqondo efana nengqondo. Akumangalisi ukuthi kunzima ukushiya indawo enhle kangaka ngemuva.

Ukucindezeleka kwe-Post-Playa kuyinto yangempela, futhi kungokwemvelo ukuhlupheka kuyo lapho ubuyela "ezweni elizenzakalelayo" ngemuva kwesonto elimangalisayo e-Black Rock City.

Ngemuva kokushisa kwami ​​kokuqala eminyakeni emithathu edlule, ngiphatha kahle kahle. Ngangizizwa sengathi ngibone okuningi futhi ngahlangana nabantu abakhulu ngempela. Ngonyaka wesibili, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, njalo lapho ngibona noma yini ebomvu ehlobene nomuntu, ngangifuna ukukhala (futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngenza). Angikwazi ukusingatha ngaphandle kokuba ngihlaselwe ngokomzwelo. Kulo nyaka ngemva kokushisa kwami ​​okwesithathu, ngisendaweni ephakathi kokubili kokubili.

Ngakho-ke yiziphi izinyathelo ezithinta abantu abasebenzisa i-Post-Burning Man blues ukuze balwe nomzwelo wokulahlekelwa "ekhaya"? Nazi iziphakamiso ezingu-5 zokulungisa kabusha ezweni elizenzakalelayo:

Yazi ukuthi Wena Unomlilo Omkhulu

Ingxenye yezizathu zokuthi kungani uzizwa ungaphansi kakhulu mhlawumbe ngoba ujabulele ukushisa kwakho kakhulu kangangokuthi uthola isikhathi esinzima ukubhekana nokuthi sekuphelile. Mhlawumbe wahlangana nabantu abamangalisayo futhi wabona izinto ezimangalisayo ezingabonakali ukuthi zikhona ezweni langempela. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, mhlawumbe uzizwa sengathi ulahlekelwe okuningi futhi ufisa sengathi ngabe ube nesikhathi esiningi sokuzizwa konke.

Ngivame ukuzwa imizwa ejulile ye-FOMO (ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa) phakathi nemikhosi eminingi, kodwa uBurning Man uyimbi kakhulu. Kukhona okuningi okwenzeka kuyo yonke indawo, ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuzizwa sengathi ngikubone futhi ngikwenzile konke.

Indlela kuphela yokulwa nale mizwa ukwamukela ukuthi wenze kahle ukuthi yini oyifunayo futhi okudingeka uyenze ngesikhathi ngasinye.

Lokho kusho ukuthi uhlangabezane nomkhosi ngokugcwele kuwe, ngokwakho. Lokho kuyiqiniso kanye nomoya weBurning Man, emva kwakho konke.

Zinakekele

Uma ungakwazi ukuphatha ukuthatha isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini ukuze ubambe ubuthongo, yenza njalo. Uma u-yogi, yenza i-yoga. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi isimiso sakho esivamile, zama ukufaka umsebenzi othile noma ezinye izinto zokunciphisa i-endorphin kuwo.

Noma yini oyenzayo, ungaqhubeki iqembu. Umzimba wakho nobuchopho bakho badinga ukuphumula. Hlonipha umzimba wakho, uthathe ishaja esihle eside, futhi udle yonke imifino enhle ongayitholi ngenkathi ku-playa. Jabulela ubuhle bezwe elizenzakalelayo.

Thola umphakathi wokushisa

Kukhona imiphakathi yezishisayo cishe cishe wonke amadolobha amakhulu emhlabeni. Sesha i-Google kanye / noma amaqembu e-Facebook ukuze ubone ukuthi yini engatholakala kuwe eduze kwakho.

Ukuxhuma nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo kuyindlela enhle yokugcina imizwa emihle yokushisa kwakho iphila.

Yiya kwi-Event Decompression

Imizi eminingi emikhulu, efana neLos Angeles, iSan Francisco, eLondon, nokunye okuningi ngemuva kwemicimbi yokushisa ezinyangeni ezimbalwa emva kokuphela kweBurn. Lezi zibizwa ngokuthi i-Decompression futhi iwebhusayithi ye-Burning Man iqoqe uhlu lwezenzakalo ezenzeka emhlabeni jikelele.

Kukhona imikhosi efana ne-AfrikaBurn, Nowhere, neFusion Festival.

Hlanganisa ama-Elements we-Playa ku-Daily Life

Yini oyithokozile ku-Burning Man? Ingabe kwakungumculo? Lalela umculo omningi owawuthandayo, futhi uya eminye imibukiso ebukhoma. Uthande isici esingokomoya? Yenza isikhathi sakho empilweni yakho yansuku zonke. Uthande ukuxhumeka komuntu siqu? Bafune kabanzi, ikakhulukazi ngaphakathi komphakathi oshisayo oshiwo ngenhla.

Okubaluleke kakhulu, qaphela futhi uvume isikhathi esimangalisayo onayo, futhi ugibele ukushisa okulandelayo!