Ngeshwa, iNdiya ithola izimemezelo eziningi ezingalungile mayelana nokudlwengulwa, ukuhlukunyezwa nokuphathwa kabi kwabesifazane. Lokhu kushiya abaningi bezinye izizwe bezibuza ukuthi iNdiya iyindawo ephephile yabesifazane ukuvakashela. Abanye besaba kangangokuthi bayanqikaza noma banqabe ukuya eNdiya.
Ngakho-ke, isimo sithandani ngempela?
Ukuqonda Inkinga kanye nalokho
Akunakuphika ukuthi iNdiya ingumphakathi olawulwa yindoda lapho ubukhokho obukhulu buqine khona.
Ukwelashwa okuhlukile kwabesilisa nabesifazane kuqala kusukela esemncane, lapho izingane zikhula. Akukhona nje ukuziphatha, kodwa kufinyelela kulimi nendlela abantu bacabanga ngayo. Ngokuvamile amantombazane abhekwa njengesibopho noma umthwalo wokushada. Batshelwa ukuba abathobekile futhi bazithobe, futhi bagqoke ngokucophelela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abafana bavunyelwe ukuba baziphathe ngendlela abayifunayo. Noma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlova noma ukungahloniphi kwabesifazane ludluliselwa ngokuthi "abafana babe ngabafana", futhi abazange babuzwe noma baqondiswe.
Abafana bafunda ukuthi abazali babo bahlanganyela kanjani, kuhlanganise nomama wabo ngokuzithoba kuyise wabo. Lokhu kubanika umqondo ongathandeki wesintu. Ukuxhumana phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane abangaphandle komshado nakho kunqunyelwe eNdiya, okuholela ekucindezelweni ngokocansi. Konke kuzo, lokhu kudala isimo lapho amalungelo abesifazane abhekwa njengento enkulu.
Owesifazane owaxoxisana nabadlwenguli abangu-100 eNdiya wathola ukuthi abadlwenguli bangamadoda avamile abangaqondi ukuthi yimiphi imvume.
Abaningi abaqapheli ukuthi lokho abakwenzile ukudlwengula.
I-India iyaqhubeka, ikakhulukazi emadolobheni amakhulu. I-mindset yezinzalamizi iphikisana nenani elikhulayo labesifazane abasebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya futhi bezimele ngokwezimali. Laba besifazane benza izinqumo zabo siqu, kunokuba bavumele amadoda ukuba abaqondise.
Noma kunjalo, lokhu nakho kunomthelela emadodeni abenza ngokuhlukumeza, uma bezwa besongelwa bese bezama ukuthola amandla abo.
I-Issue for Women Foreigners eNdiya
Umphakathi wezinzalamizi waseNdiya unomthelela wendlela abahambayo besifazane abazizwa ngayo futhi baphathwa eNdiya ngamadoda. Ngokwesiko, abesifazane baseNdiya abazihambisani ngokwabo ngaphandle kokuba bahambisane nendoda. Vele ubuke emigwaqweni yaseNdiya. Ukungabikho kwabesifazane kubonakala ngokucacile. Izikhala zomphakathi zigcwele amadoda, kuyilapho abesifazane behlelwa ekhaya nasekhishini. Ezindaweni eziningi eNdiya, abesifazane ngeke baphume ngisho nangemva kokunyama.
Amabhayisikobho aseHollywood nezinye izinhlelo zasentshonalanga ze-TV, ezibonisa abesifazane abamhlophe ngokungavumelani ukulala ocansini, kuye kwaholela namadoda amaningi aseNdiya ukuba akholelwe ngephutha ukuthi abesifazane abanjalo "bakhululwe" futhi "kulula".
Hlanganisa lezi zici ezimbili ndawonye, futhi uma lolu hlobo lomuntu waseNdiya lubona owesifazane wesinye isizwe ohamba yedwa e-India, kufana nesimemo esivulekile sokuthuthuka okungadingeki. Lokhu kukhuliswa uma owesifazane egqoke ngokuqinile noma eveza izingubo ezibhekwa njengezingcolile eNdiya.
Namuhla, enye yezinhlobo ezithandwa kakhulu zokuthuthukiswa okungafuneki ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-selfies. Kungabonakala sengathi kuyisenzo esingenabungozi. Noma kunjalo, lokho abafana abakwenzayo nge-selfies kungenye indaba.
Abaningi bayobathumela emithonjeni yezokuxhumana, bethi babe nobuhlobo obuseduze nabo besondelene nabesifazane.
Angakhululekile kodwa angaphephile
Njengowesifazane wesinye isizwe, ukuzwa kungakhululekile eNdiya kuyinhlekelele engenakugwema. Uzobhekwa ngabesilisa, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi bahlukumeze futhi bahlukumeze ngokocansi (okubizwa ngokuthi "i-eve-teasing") ngesinye isikhathi. Ngokuvamile iphela lapho. Umkhuba wokuvakasha wesifazane odlwengulwa eNdiya empeleni awukho ngaphezu kwamanye amazwe emhlabeni. Futhi, eqinisweni, iNdiya ivikelekile kwabesifazane bezinye izizwe kunabesifazane baseNdiya. Kungani?
I-India yizwe elihluke kakhulu. Ngokungafani nalokho okungase kuboniswe kumaphephandaba, ubudlova obubhekiswe kwabesifazane akukwenzeka kuyo yonke indawo. Kuvame kakhulu ezindaweni ezithile kunabanye. Izigameko eziningi zenzeka phakathi kwama-castes aphansi nasezikhungweni ezifuywayo, ikakhulukazi ezindaweni ezingasemakhaya noma ezindaweni ezisemakhaya ezinokungabikho.
Kodwa-ke, khuluma nabesifazane bezinye izizwe abaye bahamba bezungeza iNdiya, futhi kungenzeka babike uhla lwezinto ezihlukahlukene. Kwabanye, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili kwakunjalo. Kwabanye, kwakungaphansi kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, kungenakugwenywa kakhulu. Futhi, udinga ukulungele ukuthi uzokuphatha kanjani.
Kufanele Usabele Kanjani?
Ngeshwa, abesifazane abaningi bezinye izizwe abazi ukuthi bangasabela kanjani. Lapho bethola izimo ezingakhululekile, bazizwa benamahloni kakhulu futhi abafuni ukudala indawo. Lokhu yingxenye yesizathu sokuthi kungani lawo maNdiya ezwa ukuthi azimisele ukuziphatha ngendlela engafanele endaweni yokuqala - kungabikho muntu obaphatha ngakho!
Ukungazinaki isimo noma ukuzama ukuphunyuka kuso akusilo ngaso sonke isikhathi okwanele. Esikhundleni salokho, kuphumelela kakhulu ukufakazela. Amadoda angasetshenziselwa abesifazane abazimisela wona ngokuvamile avame ukushaqeka futhi azobuya ngokushesha. Ngaphandle kwalokho, abesifazane abanohloniphekile futhi babonakala sengathi bangakwazi ukuzikhathalela, banamathuba amancane okuba yizinhloso zokuqala. AmaNdiya nawo ayesaba izimpendulo ezivela kubafokazi nakwamanye amazwe.
Akubona bonke ababi
Into ebalulekile okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi akubona bonke abantu baseNdiya ababelana ngemicabango efanayo. Kunamadoda amaningi ahloniphekile ahlonipha abesifazane futhi angeke abe nokungabaza ukunikeza usizo uma kudingeka. Ungase umangale ukubhekana nezimo lapho uphathwa khona kangcono kunalokho okulindelekile. Iningi lamaNdiya lifuna abantu bezinye izizwe ukuba bajabulele futhi bathande izwe labo, futhi bazophuma endleleni yabo ukunikeza usizo. Ezinye izinkumbulo zakho ezinhle kakhulu eNdiya zizobandakanya abantu bakuleli.
Ngakho-ke, Ingabe Abafazi Abangaphandle Bayahamba NgamaSolo eNdiya?
Ngamafuphi, kuphela uma ungayisingatha. Kuyavunywa, iNdiya ayiyona izwe lapho uzozizwa ukhululekile futhi ufuna ukuqapha, nakuba imivuzo ikhona ngempela. Lindela ukucindezeleka ngezinye izikhathi, futhi ungazi ukuthi wenzeni. Ngakho-ke, uma uhambo lwakho lokuqala lwangaphandle, iNdiya ayiyona indawo ekahle ukuqala. Uma unesipiliyoni sokuhamba futhi uyaqiniseka, asikho isizathu sokuzizwa ungaphephile uma unengqondo. Ungaya ezindaweni ezikude noma uhlale ubusuku bonke. Gada ulimi lomzimba wakho nokuthi uxhumana kanjani nabantu eNdiya. Ngisho nesenzo esingaqondakali, njengokumomotheka noma ukuthinta ingalo, singachazwa njengentshisekelo. Yiba nomgwaqo smart futhi uthembele izici zakho!
Yiziphi izindawo ezihamba phambili nezinhle kakhulu?
Khumbula ukuthi izindawo ozovakashela eNdiya nazo ziyoba nethonya elikhulu ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Ngokuvamile, eningizimu (Tamil Nadu, Karnataka, Kerala, Andhra Pradesh) ibonakala ingabonakali kahle uma kuqhathaniswa nenyakatho.
I-Tamil Nadu ingenye yezindawo ezinhle kunazo zonke zokuhamba ngezinsikazi ze-India eNdiya , futhi kuyinhlangano yokuqala ephakanyisiwe. I-Mumbai iyidolobha elinezizwe eziningi elinedumela lokuphepha. Ezinye izindawo eNdiya ezinokungabikho kwenhlekelele ziyiGuarat, Punjab , Himachal Pradesh , Uttarakhand , eNyakatho India kanye naseLadakh.
Ngokuvamile, ukuhlukunyezwa kuvame kakhulu ezindaweni ezihambela izindawo ezihambela eNyakatho India, kuhlanganise neDelhi, i-Agra, nezingxenye zaseRajasthan, iMadhya Pradesh naseTuttar Pradesh. I-Fatehpur Sikri , eduze ne-Agra, yaziwa njengenye yezindawo ezimbi kunayo yonke eNdiya ngenxa yokuhlukunyezwa okukhulu kwabantu bezinye izizwe, kanye namaNdiya (ngokuthinta nokuqondisa, ngaphezu kwamabhononi wendawo). Ngo-2017, kwaphela ekuhlaselweni okukhulu kwezivakashi ezimbili zaseSwitzerland.
Kufanele Uhlale Kuphi?
Khetha indawo yokuhlala ngokuhlakanipha futhi. Ama-homestays anikezela ngezinzuzo eziningana, kufaka phakathi ulwazi lwendawo kanye nabasekhaya abakukhathalelayo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, i-India manje inezindawo eziningi zehostela ze-backpacker ze-backpacker eziningi lapho ungahlangana nabanye abahambi.