Ngenkathi imishado ivame ukusebenzisana nomndeni nabangani, inkokhelo yezinyosi ngokuvamile isinqumo esikhulu sokuqala owenza ndawonye njengombhangqwana. Akubona bonke abasanda kushada bathatha isikhathi sokuzalwa, kodwa uma kungenzeka, yenza kanjalo. Kuzokusiza ukuba ululame emshadweni futhi sikunike izinsuku ezimbalwa ezidingekayo kuphela. Nazi ezinye amathiphu ukuqinisekisa ukuthi i-honeymoon yakho yonke into oyithembayo.
I-Honeymoon ephelele yokwenza uhlu
Khetha isabelomali. Ingabe isikhwama sakho sekhredithi sivumela ubusuku ku-Airbnb, uhambo lokuqala lwe-class-in-world, noma into ephakathi?
Khombisa ukuthi ungakanani ukukhokhela ngaphambi kwesikhathi, futhi mhlawumbe ulale imali ethile yesipho somshado ongayifaka esikhwameni sakho sezinyosi.
Xoxa ngomqondo wakho weholide eliphelele. Ubani othanda imidlalo? Ziphi zona? Ufuna ukufunda enye entsha, njenge-scuba diving? Ubani othanda ukulala elangeni? Ingabe ukhetha ukuya ebhishi noma ezintabeni ? Ubani ofuna ukuhlola indawo engavamile? Ingabe iholidi laseYurophu liphupha iphupho lakho lokuzalwa, liphelele ngamadolobha nezinqaba? Yenza uhlu lwezinto ezithinta kakhulu, bese uqhathanisa amanothi. Umshado uzobizela eziningi zokwehliswa, futhi yindawo okuzoqala ngayo.
Khetha indawo oya kuyo. Uma usesabelomali, khumbula ukuthi izindawo eziningi zilungisa amazinga azo ngezikhathi ezithile. Isibonelo, kungabizi ukuvakashela amaCaribbean esimweni sezulu esifudumele (amanani ngokuvamile awela phansi ngo-Ephreli 15), kanye nezindawo zokungcebeleka zezindiza ezinikela ngemisebenzi eminingi (kodwa akukho neqhwa) ehlobo lizobiza kakhulu.
Sebenzisa i-agent yokuhamba. Akudingeki ukuthi uchithe isikhathi nochwepheshe. Angenza wonke amalungiselelo okubalekela okhotho lwakho ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngawo (futhi ngokuvamile akukhokhwa ngensizakalo). Futhi, uma kukhona okungahambi kahle, uzoba nomuntu owaziyo ukumshayela.
Uma uya phesheya, shiya isikhathi esiningi ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi iphasipthi yakho iyamanje futhi unayo i-visa edingekayo. Ezinye izindawo zidinga ukuthi ipasipoti yakho ibe kuhle futhi ingaphelelwa yisikhathi kuze kube yilapho okungenani izinyanga eziyisithupha ngemuva kokuvakasha kwakho. Ukuze ugweme ukudideka, abesifazane bayelulekwa ukuba benze ukubhuka kwezohambo ngaphansi kwegama labo labamantombazane futhi balinde baze babuyele ngokomthetho igama ngemuva komshado. Uma kudingwa inoculations, yenza lokho kuqashwa nodokotela futhi uthole imishanguzo edingekayo ngaphambi komshado ukuqinisekisa ukuthi awunayo impendulo.
Uma wenza ukubhuka, bazise ukuthi uhlala ujuba. Ngenkathi izindiza zezindiza zingenzi lutho, abameli behhotela bahlose ukujabulisa (ngethemba lokuthi uzobuya). Ungathuthukiswa ekamelweni elingcono mahhala, thola ibhodlela elamukelekile le-champagne, futhi ubani owaziyo okunye.
Vikela ubumfihlo bakho. Lokhu kubaluleke nakakhulu uma unomshado oya khona , lapho izivakashi zivame ukuhamba khona. I-honeymoon yimibili, isikhathi. Azikho izingane, akukho zilwane ezifuywayo, akukho nkampani. Yingakho ezinye izindawo ezihambayo zihamba ngemva kwemikhosi yendawo.
Thatha imali engaphezulu kunalokho ucabanga ukuthi uzodinga. Ukuze wenze izinto zibe nzima, ungase ufune ukukhokhela yonke into noma ukhethe indawo yokubhuka ehlinzeka ngokulinganisa "konke okubandakanya," okuvame ukuhlanganisa ukudla, ukulala, imisebenzi, iziphuzo, ukudluliselwa, amathiphu nokuningi.
Futhi uhlose ukupakisha ukukhanya; ngaphandle uma uya endaweni eseduze, indawo ye-rustic, ungathenga izinto eziningi ongazidingayo uma ufika lapho. (Futhi kuyothenga ukuyothenga endaweni entsha
Isikhathi sokuhlela sokwenza lutho nhlobo. Nakuba kukuhle ukwazi ukuthi unokuningi okukhethwa kukho ngokwezinto ozibonayo nokwenzayo, lokhu kungukuthi, emva kwakho konke, inhlanhla-ngakho-ke ungavumeli ukuthi igumbi elihle nelesevisi yamakamelo lilahleke!
Qaphela izifiso zomngane wakho womshado. (Umyeni wami wangenza ngengeze lokhu.)