Kuphi Bonke Abangabodwa e-Huntsville?
Nakuba sengimdala futhi ngishade, ngithola ama-imeyili amaningi angibuza ukuthi yikuphi lapho wonke ama-singles eHuntsville ekhona. Ngacwaninga futhi nganquma ukubuza abanye abangane bami abangashadile ngamasu futhi bacela abanye abangane babo abangashadile ... ngakho-ke, nakhu engikutholile. Sicela uqaphele ukuthi angivumi noma ubani noma yini. Sicela usebenzise ukuqonda kwakho lapho uhlangana nabantu. Jabulela ... kodwa phephile!
Uma wazi okuthile mayelana nokuphola eHuntsville ukuthi angiyikho, ngicela ungilahle umlayini kuJean Brandau ungitshele ngakho.
Ngizobuyekeza lesi sihloko ngezikhathi ezithile.
Imicabango yokuqomisana eHuntsville Kusuka Kwabesifazane:
- Owesifazane oyedwa wabelana ngalokhu: "Kulula ukuhlangana nabantu lapha eHuntsville, uma nje uvulekile ukuhlangana nabantu.Vula, okusho ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu ozofanelana nomgomo wakho. Ukugxila kufanele kube ekwenzeni abangane abasha, hhayi nje ukuthandana. Ngakho-ke kuthiwani uma umfana engenzi lutho ngendlela ongathanda ngayo, noma mhlawumbe usemncanyana noma omdala kunalokho ongathanda ... akulimazi ukuhlangabezana nesidlo sasemini, ukukhuluma ngezinto ezithandwayo, futhi owaziyo ? Okungenani uyenze umngane. Uma unabangane abaningi, uvame ukuhlangana nabantu abangaphandle kwembuthano yakho yamanje yomphakathi. Okusho ukuthi .... amathuba amaningi okuphola! Ngitholile ukuthi ngiyathandeka futhi ngithembekile ufika kude kakhulu. "Gals, abafana bavele ngaphandle lapho. Uma ungenayo izinsuku, awukwenzi nje umzamo. Izindawo ezihamba phambili zokuhlangabezana nezinsuku ezikhona: Ukuphoqa, i-Humphrey's, 801 Franklin, imisebenzi yothando kanye namaqembu eqiniso! "
- Omunye wesifazane uhlanganyela iseluleko: Umcabango wokuqala uwuhlobo olucacile .... awukwazi ukuhlangabezana nanoma ubani uhlezi ekhaya! Esesibili ngukuthi uma uphumile futhi uhamba eHuttsville noma kuphi kulolu daba udinga ukufinyeleleka. Ngamanye amazwi, ulimi lomzimba wakho lufanele lube lukuthi "Ngivulekile kakhulu ukuhlangana nokwenza umngane omusha". Lesi seluleko singcono kumbili umfana noma u-gal .... izikhathi eziningi ngiba nabangani "abathandekayo" ababeka kimi isikhathi sonke .... 'Hayi, kubonakala sengathi abantu bakhuphuka futhi bakhulume nani nonke Ngaleso sikhathi, kungani ".... impendulo yami ithi" Yebo, ngiye ngafunda ukuthi kufanele ufinyeleleke "kuyingozi kakhulu kunoma ubani ukuthi angene kuwe esimweni esingajwayele noma ngabe esesibhayeni, umhlangano ohlobene nomsebenzi noma olunye uhlobo lomcimbi. Yenze kube lula ngabo (futhi wena), ukuxhumana kahle kwamehlo, ubuso obomomothekayo nesimo sengqondo esihle kuyoba nomuntu onamahloni kakhulu akhulume nawe!
- Le ntombazane iye yaba ngumfelokazi iminyaka eyisithupha: Kukhona indaba enjalo ekuthandaneni, ikakhulukazi lapho ngineminyaka engama-56, maduzane. Ngicabanga eminyakeni engu-6 kusukela umyeni wami edlulile, ngibhale abantu abangaphezu kuka-50, ikakhulukazi nje isikhathi esisodwa ... Abahlaseli bahle kakhulu, cishe abantu abangaba ngu-300 lapho ubusuku obuhle, bonke abafuna ukuthola ukuqagela ... Kunenhlanganisela yobudala, kepha ngathola ikakhulukazi labo abashaya kimi babengabafana abancane futhi anginaso isithakazelo kulokho ... Mhlawumbe nginguye, futhi ngiyathanda, noma yini, kodwa nginakho okudingekayo uhlu futhi kufanele ayenze noma abe nezinto ezithile noma anginaso isithakazelo. Omunye ongeyena ophuza kakhulu, ongeyena obhemayo, ongeyena othuka, ongeyena ubhiya, ongeyona yangempela, ongeyena onobuqili, ongewona amanga, ongeyena womanizer, futhi uhlu luqhubeka futhi ... kuye kwaba ukuhlukanisa amaqembu, amaqembu okugada, amaqembu, njll futhi wonke umuntu esontweni uneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-100 ubudala .... Lapho ngiphila khona manje, kunabakhamuzi abangu-736, ngitshele okuningi. Ngiya echibini nakumaqembu abo, futhi amadoda amadala alandela abesifazane abasha futhi lezi zinsizwa zilandela abesifazane abadala, hhayi nje kimi. ... Yebo, ngingathanda ukuhlangana nomuntu oyigugu kodwa kubonakala sengathi akakho ngaphandle. Ngamisa umama wami oneminyaka engu-47 ubudala, uneminyaka engama-74, eminyakeni emihlanu eyedlule futhi asebehlangene futhi bangabantu bomshado. Ungumuntu omuhle. Ngicabanga ukuthi inkathazo yami nganginomshado omkhulu kangaka, indoda enomusa nothando, ongeyiphuzo noma othumayo noma othuka, ehlonipha abanye nabasebenzi abasebenza kanzima, umngane wami womshado, ngakho manje kunzima ngoba uqhathanisa. LoLwesihlanu ngabe sishade iminyaka engu-38. .. Manje ngishayela wonke umuntu engimhlangabeza, abasebenzisi, abahlukumezi, abalahlekile nabaqambimanga. Omunye umfana wangishaya ... kanye kanye futhi wayengumlando. Abaningi baye bathembela kimi ukuthi ngikhokhele ukuphuma, omunye wenqabe ukusebenza, futhi cishe bonke babengamanga futhi omunye weba, ngakho-ke ngizizwa ngifuna ukufihla endaweni yami. Nganginamahloni izikhathi ezimbalwa, futhi ngawela ukukhonta izikhathi ezimbalwa, kodwa hhayi, ngafunda izifundo ezinzima. (Qaphela: eminye imininingwana engavumelekile ukuvikela onecala.)
Bheka ikhasi elilandelayo lezinkolelo zomuntu ekuthandaneni
Ukuthandana kwe-Intanethi ekhasini 2
Bheka Ikhasi 3 yezindawo eziseHuntsville ukuze zihlangane nabakwa-Singles
Izihloko ezingaphezulu
Imicabango Yokuqomisana eHuntsville Kusuka Kwombono Womuntu:
- Omunye wesilisa onesibindi waxoxa nami ngokuthandana naye: Ngokuqondene nombono womuntu, ngiyakunikeza lokho engikubonile futhi ngikuzwile ku-prowl, kokubili kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami nokwabangane bami nabangane bami. Isixuku sengizungezile ngithanda ukuxhumana nabantu abaningi uma kungenzeka, ngokuvamile sihlanganisa ndawonye ezindaweni zokudlela nakwezinye amakilabhu noma izindawo (izintandokazi ziyi-Vinyl, i-Flying Monkey Arts, nezenzakalo zangaphansi komhlaba eLowe Mill). Siningi kakhulu ngasekupheleni kweminyaka engamashumi amabili, okwangenza ngimncane kunomphakathi, futhi ngivame ukufana neqembu lezenhlalakahle ezazivame ukubiza ama-Bohemians, ngokuthi sithanda ubuciko, umculo, nokugubha impilo nganoma iyiphi indlela esishaya ngayo. Iningi lamadoda asezinkampanini zobuchwepheshe noma eziphathelene nobuciko, iningi labesifazane emisebenzini yokudayisa noma yedesksi, futhi sonke sibheka ukuthi sihlanganyela nokubhala okuthile.
Owesifazane, nakuba ... Uthole kakhulu lapho, ikakhulukazi njengoba abesifazane abaningi bezama ubulili kanye nezinye izinto ezenza abafana babe nokuncintisana nakakhulu kunalokho esasivame ukukwenza. Ngingabheka ngakwesinye isandla ukuthi zingaki zazo engizikhuluma njalo (ngaphandle komsebenzi) okungenani okungenani wadlala nomunye wesifazane ngesikhathi esisodwa. Lokhu kungase kusimangaze abantu abathile, ikakhulukazi lapha eningizimu, kodwa kubonakala sengathi izinto ziyahamba ngokuhamba kwazo. Enye into eyenza kube nzima ukuthi abesifazane abaningi babonakale bethatha ama-women's lib 'mantras ngaphandle kokukwenza noma yini nabo. Sisalindeleke ukuba sikhokhe, sibe ngabahloniphekile, futhi ngokujwayelekile senze konke okwenziwa yizinzalamizi zethu, ngenkathi sigcina ukulinganisela okubuhlungu kokufanelekile nokuba ngumfana omubi wokuthi kubonakala sengathi abesifazane abasha bafuna ngempela.
Angikholelwa okwesikhashana ukuthi abesifazane bafuna ngempela abantu abahle, noma okungenani hhayi abavela esizukulwaneni sami. Ngibabona belandela abafana abanezithuthuthu, izimoto ezisheshayo, imali, nokuphuza, hhayi abaphethe imisebenzi yosuku kanye no-401k. Kusobala ukuthi beza kimi lapho izinto zihamba kahle, ngoba lokho abafuna abantu abathandekayo ngumngane obaqonda ngempela futhi uphephile, lapho ingozi ingabonakali. Khona-ke, izinsuku noma amasonto kamuva, ubuyela emuva ku-prowl
ukuze omunye 'fixer' - umfana ozinikeza okuningi ukusebenza, ngisho noma bengalokothi ukuphatha ukumenza ashintshe. Labo bantu yibo ongazibonanga ngaphandle komuntu obambelele kubo, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi kungase kubuyele emuva ekukhuthazeni okuqhubekayo futhi abanye bathambekele ekutheni bakwazi ukuvikela izingane zabo. Kubi kakhulu ukuthi akenzi lutho ngobusuku obufanele baphonswe ngaphandle kwe-bar yokulwa futhi. Okubi? Mina? Ungalokothi!
Ukuthandana kwi-intanethi
Ngenze indaba eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule ngomunye wesifazane waseHuntsville owasebenzisa abantu be-AOL ukuthola izinsuku ezithile. Ukwabelana ngezeluleko ezithile mayelana nezingibe ezizobheka lapho uhlangana nomfokazi. Sicela uqaphele uma ukhetha ukuhlangana nabantu ngale ndlela! Ngiyazi abantu abaningi eHuntsville abahlangana nomlingani wabo wesikhathi esizayo e-intanethi futhi bahlala bejabule njalo ngemva kwalokho .... kodwa akusilo njalo. Nazi izindawo ezimbalwa ongazisebenzisa ku-intanethi:
Kulungile, i-Cupid
Amazwana avela kumsebenzisi: Esixukwini esincane, isayithi ku- OK, i-Cupid ibonakala ifaka phakathi kwehla enkulu ye-sardonic ukuhleka ngokufanelana kwayo, okwenziwe nge-database ehambisana nesithakazelo nenqubo yombhalo wokwakha ngokusekelwe emibuthanweni ehanjisiwe ngabasebenzisi. Bavela ku-banal (ezemidlalo nokunye), kuya geeky (izinto ezifana namakhomphyutha, i-Monty Python), kuya kumafilosofi nakwezombangazwe (kulungile yini ukuthi abantu bangabe bazondla ngokwabo uma belambile?).
Ngiyathanda iphrezentheshini yabo, uhlelo lwabo lokuhlukanisa, nokuzwa okujwayelekile kwendawo, kodwa iningi labantu engithole ukuxhumeka okuningi nakho, ngokudabukisayo, kude. Elinye ibhonasi, noma kunjalo: likhululekile.
Ukuthandana Kwe-Inthanethi Kuqhutshwa ekhasini elilandelayo
Bheka ikhasi elilandelayo lezindawo ezihlala e-Huntsville ukuze zihlangane nama-Singles
Izihloko ezingaphezulu
I-Social Network Network
Amazwana avela kumsebenzisi: Abangane bami nami sitholile impumelelo enkulu ngeThikle , indawo yokukhokha kubo bonke kodwa izinto ezilula kakhulu (ukuphequlula, kodwa akukho ukuhambisana kokuhlola kweqiniso, i-imeyili, noma ezinye izindlela zokuxhumana). Kungenzeka ukuthi uthole okuningi kwesixuku esidala, esihlela kuma-30s, ama-40, nakakhulu nakwezinye izimo. Njengamanye amasayithi amaningi wokuphola, ihlanganisa isithombe esisekelwe esithombeni, amaphrofayli achazwe ngumsebenzisi, nochungechunge lwezivivinyo ukuze uzame ukukufanisa nabanye abantu abazofanelana nezidingo zakho nezidingo zakho.
Isayithi lithi banama-psychiatrists abakha imigomo yabo ehambisanayo - Umlinganiso Weqiniso - futhi unokwakhela uhla oluningi lwezinsiza ezisizayo ezifanele ukunikeza ulwazi oluthe xaxa ngawe kumlingani angakhona. Ukuze usebenzise ngokugcwele isayithi, noma kunjalo, udinga ukukhokha imali.
I-LiveJournal (i-weblog noma ibhulogi) Ngokuyinhloko ekolishi nasemashumini.
Amazwana avela kumsebenzisi: Lapha eHuntsville, ngiyazi ukuthi kukhona ubukhona obuningi bokuphila bubukhoma okungenani okuthakazelisayo. Abambalwa babo, njengawe
http://www.livejournal.com/community/huntsville/, naku- http: //www.livejournal.com/community/i_love_al/ kungukumenyezelwa kwemicimbi yasendaweni, imibukiso, nezinye izinto ezingase zithandeke intsha ebanjwe kuleli dolobha (lapho cishe kuyoba khona abantu abangashadile). Kwesinye, i-vein ehlobene, umculo womculo wangaphansi komhlaba wase-Alabama uhlolwe
http://www.livejournal.com/community/alunderground/. Ungase umangale ukwazi ngisho nokuthi sinesimo sangaphansi komhlaba.
Izindawo e-Huntsville ukuhlangabezana nama-Singles:
I-Bar & Grill ye-Humphrey
109 Washington Street, 704-5555
Amazwana: Umculo obukhoma njalo ebusuku ngeviki ngo-9: 15 ntambama, akakho nanoma yisiphi isembozo.
Ukubuyekezwa kokudlela
I-Factory Factory
619 Street Street, 539-8001
Amazwana: Ukuzijabulisa bukhoma ngoLwesithathu-ngoMgqibelo ... NgoLwesine, ngoLwesine nangeLwesihlanu ngo-6: 30 no-8: 00 ntambama ngoMgqibelo; NgoLwesithathu kubhekwa "ubusuku obungabodwa," akukho okumboziwe.
Okushiwo komunye umfundi: Nakuba ngishadile ngenjabulo futhi ngingaboni, izikhathi esiye zaba nazo kuFF zisikhumbuze ngezinsuku zakudala ku-Crockmeirer, lapho abesifazane abangashadile bezizwa bephephile futhi kukhona amathani abantu abahlangana ndawonye ingane-boomer age range futhi encane. Ngeza kwamanye amaqembu amakhulu kanye ne-patio enhle yangaphandle, futhi awukwazi ukukushaya!
Ukubuyekezwa kokudlela
I-Jazz Factory
109 North Side Square, 539-1919
Amazwana: Umculo Njalo ebusuku (i-jazz yesikole ngezimpelasonto) egumbini leMartini; amaqembu amabili ngempelasonto - ngoLwesihlanu / ngoMgqibelo. Igumbi lokudlela elikhulu & Igumbi leMartini. NgoLwesithathu i-Blues Night ne- Microwave Dave iqala ngo-6: 30 ntambama nge-hors d'oeuvres yamahhala. I-"Place Romantic Place" eyayivakashelwe ukuya futhi "Indawo Engcono kakhulu Yosuku Lokuqala" e-Huntsville izikhathi eziningi.
Ukubuyekezwa kokudlela
I-KaffeeKlatsch Bar
103 Jefferson N .; 536-7993
Amazwana: Amahora ngoMsombuluko-4: 00 - 2: 00; Sat & Sun. Ngo-5: 00 kuya ku-2 ekuseni ngoLwesihlanu noMgqibelo uhlobo oluthile lomculo (phakathi kuka-10- 2) neSonto kusihlwa kuvulekile i-micro blues jam. (10: 00 ntambama) ngoMsombuluko - i-mic acoustic evulekile ngo-9: 00 ntambama, amaSonto kanye noMsombuluko akhululekile; izikhathi eziningi ngoLwesihlanu nangomgqibelo - ikakhulukazi mahhala; ngezinye izikhathi inkokhelo ye-$ 3-5 yekhava yokudlala okukhethekile. Yiba nama-pizza amakhulu akhiwe endlini; iziphuzo zekhofi ezikhethekile ezivela kuKaffeeKlatsch.
Isixuku esikhulu se-eclectic.
Ukubuyekezwa kokuthengwa kwekhofi
801 Franklin
801 Franklin St., 519-8019
Amazwana: NgoMsombuluko ebusuku "ngo-5: 00 ntambama ngo-801" ukunambitheka kwewayini ngeviki, i-$ 12 ehlanganisa iwayini ne-hors d'oeuvres, ama-exhibition yobuciko be-art akhululekile futhi ashintshe njalo ezinyangeni ezingu-2-3. Kukhona ukwamukela umculi okuyindawo enhle yokuhlangana nabantu futhi ukungena kuwumnikelo osizini othize. Baphinde babe "newayini lokudla" kanye ngenyanga: ukudla okuyi-4 okulungiselelwe ngokukhethekile nomthengisi wewayini, isikhulumi somvakashi ngewayini nokudla, nethuba lokuhlangabezana nabenzi bewayini. Bamukele "Umklomelo Wokuhlonipha" wabo wesine kusukela ku- Wine Spectator, umagazini kazwelonke wewayini.
Ukubuyekezwa kokudlela
I-Alabama Roadhouse
2322 Memorial Parkway SW, 536-2121
Amazwana: Ukuzijabulisa bukhoma ngoLwesibili-ngoMgqibelo; Kuvaliwe ngeSonto noMsombuluko ebusuku. NgoLwesine yi-Singles Night; NgoLwesibili yi-Night Night; NgoLwesithathu yi-Bike Night; Isembozo seLwesine sibophezele isembozo se-$ 3, abesifazane bakhululekile Igama Lwesihlanu-uMgqibelo 5-7 pm NgoLwesibili-ngoLwesine iziphuzo zokuphuza & mahhala hors d'oeuvre; Izindleko ziqala ngemva kwehora lesishiyagalombili.
umculo uqala ngoLwesibili -Ngomhla ka-8: 00; NgoLwesihlanu nomgqibelo ngo-9: 00.
I-Southern Adventures
2150 Leeman Ferry uDkt, 880-6599.
Amazwana: Umculo ophilayo ngoLwesihlanu noMgqibelo ebusuku. Amabhedi anecala lokukhokha - $ 3.00 kuya ku-$ 7.00. Intsha eningi, amahora angu-8: 12-12 kuya phakathi kwamabili, akukho ukudla okukhululekile, ukudansa uma kuvunyelwe ikamelo. Iningi labangabantwana abasha baya emisebenzini yebhande.
Izindawo zokuhlangana nabantu ziqhubeka ekhasini elilandelayo
Izihloko ezingaphezulu
I-Flying Monkey Arts
1230 Putman Drive (ikheli elisha)
Huntsville, AL
Amazwana: I- Flying Monkey Arts Center ayiyona inzuzo yomphakathi ohlangothini oluhlomulayo okhuthaza, osekela futhi okhuthaza izenzakalo, ama-workshops nama-studio ahambisana nomculo, ifilimu, yaseshashalazini, idansa, i-puppetry, ubuciko bokubukwa nokusebenza ngokugxila emisebenzini yokuhlola izilaleli ezivuthiwe. Unalo uhlu lwe-imeyili ongajoyina ukuthola izimemezelo mayelana nokuthi kwenzekani ngesonto ngalinye.
Kuyinto nje isidlo! 44
109 Jefferson St. Suite 6; 519-3644.
It Just Just Lunch kuyinto service dating ukuthi ngokukhethekile ochwepheshe abamatasa. Amaklayenti angaphezulu kwama-95% anezigolishi zasekolishi kanti cishe amaphesenti angu-70 aneziqu eziphambili. Isimiso silula; iklayenti ihlangana nomqondisi wocwaningo olulodwa lapho baxoxisana ngemigomo esemqoka, imingcele, indlela yokuphila nezithakazelo. Kusukela kulolu daba umqondisi isandla ukhetha umdlalo; akukho amavidiyo noma amakhompiyutha asetshenziselwa kule nqubo, i-personalized ngokwedlulele. Bese benza wonke umsebenzi; ukuhlela usuku lokudla kwasemini, iziphuzo emva komsebenzi noma nge-weekend brunch kwenye yezindawo zokudlela ezinhle eHuntsville. Kuyinto ejabulisayo futhi yenzelwe ukuba lula kakhulu. Uma iklayenti ithengisa ihora elilodwa lokuxoxwa kokuqala, bayithatha kusukela lapho. Kukho imali ekhokhelwa izinsizakalo. Baye sebhizinisini kusukela ngo-1991 futhi banezindawo ezingu-65 ezweni lonke nasezindaweni ezimbili zomhlaba wonke eToronto naseSingapore.
I-Just Lunch ithi: "Impela nje indlela engcono kakhulu yokuhlangana nabantu abafundele ikhwalithi ngendlela ehlakaniphile, engacindezeli."
I-Huntsville Young Professionals (HYP)
U-Huntsville Young Professionals wadalwa ukunikeza izenzakalo zomphakathi kanye nethuba lokuxhumana nabantu abasha abasha esifundeni saseHuntsville.
I-HYP yadalwa ukwenza isikhala sezenhlalo ezihlukene nakakhulu eHuntsville kuqala ngezingxube ze-once-a-month ngenkathi futhi sikhuthaza ochwepheshe abasha ukuba bahlale futhi bahlale eHuntsville. Ukuthola uhlu lwe-"Alive After Five" lwemeyili yezenzakalo, i-imeyili event@getHyp.net .
Ungakhohlwa izindawo ezicacile ukuze uhlangane nabantu abanjengo-ice cream indawo yokudla ngeSonto ebusuku noma emnyangweni wamadoda ezitolo. Ngitshele uma uneminye imibono noma imibono mayelana nokuthola abantu abasha, abasha, abakhangayo eHuntsville - kuningi labo ngaphandle kwabo lapho lapho kukhona amagquma!
Izihloko ezingaphezulu