Uma ungesiRussia futhi unesithakazelo ekuthandaneni nentombazane yaseRussia, ungase udingeke incwadi ethile yokufundisa. Ngenkathi imithetho eyisisekelo yokuqhathaniswa nokuziphatha okusobala isebenza, kuneziqu ezimbalwa ezenziwa amantombazane aseRussia ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi adala ukungqubuzana phakathi kwamantombazane aseRussia namadoda avela eNtshonalanga.
Yiqiniso, kunezinto eziningana abesifazane abaseRussia abangazithandi ngamadoda aseRussia-okukunika ithuba lokudlala umehluko wakho-kodwa kukhona nezinye izici zamadoda aseRussia amantombazane aseRussia enza ngempela, ngisho noma angalokothi avume .
Ukwazi lokhu okuthandayo, ungazitholela indlela elula kakhulu ukuheha amantombazane aseRussia ngesikhathi uvakashela eRussia.
Gqoka Njalo
Amadoda aseRashiya avame ukugqoka ngokumane nje , futhi uma behlala ebuhlotsheni bangakwazi ukuyeka ukugqoka kahle futhi bahlale bezimpahla ezikhululekile-ezihlangene. Ukuze ummangele, yenza okuphambene futhi ugqoke ngokubukhali- hhayi phezulu-phezulu-, kodwa bheka ubumbene. Gqoka izinto eziyisisekelo ezenziwe ngezinto eziphezulu, zifake imfashini (isib. Akukho ama-denim-cut-wash denim kanye namasineki) futhi uzoba nezincwadi zakhe ezinhle.
Yiba yiqiniso
Amadoda aseRashiya angase acishe acindezeleke, kanti ngenkathi ufuna ukuhlala kude nalolo siphetho se-spectrum, nakanjani awufuni ukuhamba njengomuntu ongenakucabangela noma ukumvumela enze zonke izinqumo. Yigcine ngokulinganisela okuhle, kodwa ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uthatha isilawuli uma kudingeka.
Khetha ukuthi uya kuphi lapho udla khona bese ummema lapho. Nquma ukuthi uzokwenzani ngalolo suku bese umcela ukuthi akwenze. Ungambizi futhi uthi 'ufuna ukuyenza ini?'. Akukhona ukuthi abesifazane baseRashiya abathandi ukwenza izinqumo-eqinisweni, ebuhlotsheni obukhulu baseRussia, abesifazane banesandla esiphakeme; kungokuthi lokho ukubonisa ukuqiniseka kubonisa ukuthi uzokwazi ukumfanisa nokunquma kwakhe kunokumshiya ukwenza wonke umsebenzi.
Yiba uMnumzane
Amadoda aseRussia aqeqeshwe kahle ekukhuleni , futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi intombazane yakho yaseRussia isimanje kangakanani, ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyamnakekela ngendlela efanayo. Lokhu kusho ukuqoqa umthethosivivinywa endaweni yokudlela ngaphandle kwengxoxo, ukuvula iminyango, ukuyeka isihlalo sakho emgwaqeni, futhi njalo uphethe konke ngaphandle kwesikhwama sakhe (ngaphakathi kwesizathu).
Yiba mnandi
Lona yindawo ongakhanyisa ngayo ngempela amadoda aseRussia. Akufanele ukukhiqiza okuningi, kodwa amadoda amaningi aseRussia angaba nzima, futhi ungaphumelela ngokucabangela, uzwela, futhi ngokuvamile uqinisekise ukuthi ukhululekile, ujabule futhi ulalele. Hlala kude nensimu ethi "nice-guy" engaqondakali-awufuni ukubonakala sengathi u-wimp-kodwa umlalele kanye nezifiso zakhe ngendlela ekhululekile.
Zula izindima zobulili ngokucophelela
Amadoda amaningi aseRussia asemanamathele emcimbini wendabuko wezindima zobulili , futhi ukucabanga okuvamile kwabesifazane baseRussia ukuthi amadoda aseNtshonalanga ayamukela ngokwengeziwe indima eguqukayo yabesifazane emphakathini. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kufanele wamukele nganoma iyiphi indlela ethatha isinqumo sokuphila impilo yakhe-kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukuba ngumfazi wezomsebenzi, umenzi womuzi noma ukuxuba kokubili; ungalokothi ulahle noma iyiphi yalezi zindlela zokuphila.
Ngezinga elincane, ungabonisa lokhu ngokuzimisela ukupheka nokuhlanza-ungalindeli ukuba njalo akwenze njengamadoda amaningi aseRussia enza.
Thenga izimbali zakhe
Ekugcineni, amadoda aseRussia adumile ngokubambisana kwabo ngokunikeza izimbali- emphakathini waseRussia, izimbali zithengwa cishe noma yisiphi isenzakalo sokugubha. Abesifazane baseRashiya bayakwazisa ukuthi uletha izimbali zakhe ngezinsuku zokuzalwa, imikhosi, kanye kanye ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngenxa yokuthi.