Ukuhamba ngebhizinisi kuvame ukubonisa abahambi bebhizinisi ukuthi izwe lilingana kangakanani, ikakhulukazi lapho bevakashela indawo ebude emhlanganweni webhizinisi, njengeNingizimu Afrika. INingizimu Afrika yindawo enhle yokuvakashela iholidi noma iholidi (nesikhathi esithile sokuzama indawo eyodwa enkulu yezindawo zokushushumbisa eNingizimu Afrika noma uhambo lwezinsuku eziyishumi ezinkulu eNingizimu Afrika !), Kodwa futhi ngokuya ngokuya endaweni yokuhambela ibhizinisi.
Nakuba okuningi okuyisisekelo kokuqhuba ibhizinisi ohambweni lwebhizinisi kuyafana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhona, kunezinye eziningi ezincane (futhi hhayi ezincane) imininingwane kanye nemikhuba yamasiko engenza umehluko omkhulu uma kuziwa ukuvala lokho ukuphatha. INingizimu Afrika yisibonelo esihle sokuthi ukuqonda ukuhluka kwamasiko kumuntu ohamba ngebhizinisi kungenza umehluko phakathi kokufaka uphawu lokungena ngemvume futhi ukushaya lesi sigaba. Isibonelo, ngenkathi eNingizimu Afrika, ungaboni ngenkathi ukhuluma noma ukhuluma ngezandla zakho emaphaketheni akho. Bobabili babhekwa njengesihluku. Kodwa lungele ukubuyisela emuva futhi ukugcina isandla, njengoba bobabili bejwayelekile eNingizimu Afrika.
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Amathiphu Abagibeli BamaBhizinisi Abaya eNingizimu Afrika
- Lapho wenza ibhizinisi eNingizimu Afrika , khumbula ukuthi amaNgisi, amaAfrika kanye nabantu abamnyama baseAfrika bonke banezinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zokubingelela, kanti ngenkathi babumbene njengezakhamuzi zaseNingizimu Afrika, ngamunye uvame ukubonakalisa ubuntu babo obumbene.
- INingizimu Afrika iyisikhungo sezimboni ze-Afrika futhi isakhiqizi esiyinhloko samaminerali afaka amadayimane, igolide, isiliva nethusi.
- Noma yikuphi ukungazi mayelana nesimo sezepolitiki sasekhaya sasekhaya saseNingizimu Afrika noma sesifundazwe cishe kuzokukufanelekela ukwenza ibhizinisi kuleli zwe.
- Ngokwehlukana nobandlululo, iNingizimu Afrika ivele njengezizwe eziningi kakhulu, ezakhiwa yiBrithani, isiBhunu, isiMalay , isiNdiya, IsiZulu, IsiXhosa nezinye izizwe ezimnyama.
- INingizimu Afrika ayiyona "ibhodlela lokuqhakazila", kodwa kunomphakathi owenziwe yimiphakathi ehlukahlukene kanye nezinhlanga ezihlala zihlukile kodwa ziyingxenye ebalulekile ekufuneni inyunyana entsha efuna ukuhola nokulungisa izwe.
- Abantu abakhuluma isiNgisi baseNingizimu Afrika bavame ukugcinwa, baziqhenya ngamagugu abo amasiko, babe nemikhuba emihle, inkulumo enhle, inkulumo ecacile, futhi bagweme izingxabano ezingadingekile. Abantu baseNingizimu Afrika, njengabokhokho babo baseDashiya, baqonde ngqo futhi baze babe nomkhuba "wokutshela lokho."
- Abantu abaningi baseNingizimu Afrika banamagama amabili futhi bakhuluma isiNgisi nesiBhunu (isiDashi).
- Abanye abantu baseNingizimu Afrika bakhuluma isiNgisi ngezwi elinamandla, kanye nesigqi esisheshayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi ulalelisise ngoba ukucela abantu ukuthi baziphindiselele kuzogcina behlambalaza.
- Izethulo zivame ukuhlelwa ngokulandelana ngokulandelana. Abantu baseNingizimu Afrika bayakwazisa imfundo enhle, ngakho-ke i-degree ephakeme evela eYunivesithi eyaziwayo ingabhekiswa ekusungulweni.
- Ngokuvamile, abantu baseNingizimu Afrika balandela isitayela saseBrithani sokuhlonipha, ukushintshaniswa ngokusemthethweni kwezandla kanye nokuhwebelana kwekhadi lebhizinisi.
- Njalo ulinde ukuba ucele ukuhlala phansi. Uma uhlezi, lindele ukuthi ubuzwe izikhathi ezimbalwa uma ufuna ikhofi noma itiye. Kungumqondo omuhle ukwamukela, njengoba lokhu kuhlinzeka ngekhefu ngendlela ejwayelekile futhi kuvumela ukuqala kweminye "inkulumo encane."
- Intshisekelo evamile ezemidlalo ihamba phambili ekuqiniseni uhlangothi lomuntu siqu lobuhlobo bebhizinisi. Ukusho ngokungaqondile ukuthi ungathanda ukubona umdlalo wekhilikithi noma umdlalo wombhoxo ungakuthola isimemo esisodwa!
- Ngokwemvelo, abantu baseNingizimu Afrika bangabantu abafudumele, abanobungane, abaphumayo, nezingxoxo zingathola umuntu emva kwesikhathi esifushane. Bayothatha isithakazelo sangempela endleleni yokuphila ezweni lakini lakubo nokuthi ucabangani ngeNingizimu Afrika.
- Uma kunesikhathi eside sokuthula lapho kuxoxwa, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi isimo sesiphuthumayo noma kukhona okunye okungalungile.
- Ngokuphambene nalokho, izingxoxo zebhizinisi ziqhutshwa ngendlela ehlelekile nangamazwi athule. Izwi eliphakanyisiwe lizohunyushwa njengokuthuka. Futhi, ukwandisa ivolumu yakho kubeka ingozi yokukubiza ngokuthi ungowokuzizwela ongaphezu kwamanye amazwe okhathazekile kakhulu "ngomgqa ophansi" kunokwakhe uhlangothi lobuhlobo bebhizinisi.
- Abathengisi baseNingizimu Afrika abathinteka kalula ngama-slides. Umhlangano wokuqala ukhuluma ngokusungula ubuhlobo bakho futhi unqume ukuthi ungumuntu ongayethemba. Kungaba iphutha ukulindela izinqumo noma izinyathelo ezisheshayo kuze kube yilapho ubuhlobo busekelwe kahle.
- Gcina isethulo sakho sifushane, kuze kube sekugcineni, futhi ugcwaliswe imibono ethile ehlobene nezimo ezikhethekile zokwenza ibhizinisi eNingizimu Afrika. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuphathwa kanye nokuxhaswa kwezimali kubambiswano kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu baseNingizimu Afrika kunomkhiqizo noma inkonzo enizama ukuyithengisa.
- Ngokuvamile, abantu baseNingizimu Afrika bathande ukuvuma ukuthi abazi impendulo. Ukuthambekela okuningi kuhlobene nesiko lokungenisa izihambi kanye nesifiso sokungadikibala. Ungaziphakamisi ukuze uphendule ngokushesha, kanti ulwazi olulungile luzobe lunikezwa kuwe esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
5 Izihloko Eziyinhloko Zengxoxo noma Amathiphu Okuthinta
Ukugcina ukuxhumana okuhle emehlweni kuyadingeka
Ukukhuluma ngezemidlalo kuyindlela ephumelelayo yokwenza ibhizinisi ngokwezifiso. Yenza umzamo wokufunda ngokufezekisa kwezwe kuleli galofu, i-rugby, nekhilikithi
Isipho esincane nokho esicatshangelwe kubangane bakho bebhizinisi noma imindeni yabo iyokwazisa kakhulu. Izipho ezenziwe ngokwezifiso zingcono kakhulu
Ukukhuluma ngezwe lakho lakubo, kanye nesithakazelo sakho eNingizimu Afrika - lizwe elihlukahlukene futhi elihle, isiko elicebile, nezilwane zasendle
Izinqubomgomo eziguqukayo zobuhlanga nezenhlalakahle zivulekile ukuxoxa, kodwa qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi kahle isihloko futhi ungafaki imibono yakho
5 Izihloko Eziyinhloko Zengxoxo noma Izenzo Zokuthinta
Kuyinto engafanele ukukhomba ngomunwe wakho wenkomba ukuze usebenzise isandla esivulekile
Ukukhuluma ngezandla zakho emaphaketheni akho kubhekwa njengokungcolile
Uma sidlula emnyango, kuwumkhuba wamadoda ase-Afrika ukuqala abesifazane
Ungaqalisi noma uhlanganyele ezingxoxweni zobuhlanga noma ngokobulili uma kwenzeka isihloko sivela
I "V" noma uphawu lokuthula kufana nokunikeza "othile ngomunwe", futhi ngokuvamile kuvunyelwe ukuphakama okuphezulu kwesandla
Inqubo Yokuthatha Izinqumo Nokuxoxisana
- Ukuhamba kwebhizinisi kuyahamba kancane futhi kukhululekile kakhulu uma kuziwa ekuxoxweni nasezinkingeni zokwenza izinqumo. Ukwehliswa ngokweqile ngezikhathi zokuchitha isikhathi kuzoba okungahambi kahle. Gwema "ukudayiswa kanzima" kusukela lokho kungase kubonakale sengathi yi-pushy.
- Ezingxoxweni nasekuthathweni kwezinqumo, abantu baseNingizimu Afrika balwela ukwakha ukuvumelana futhi bakhethe ukubona zonke izinhlangothi zithola okuthile. Ngokuyinhloko, zilawulwa umuzwa wokudlala kahle, futhi akuvamile ukuba "ziqhubekele" ngamanani noma ukukhathazeka ngokwemininingwane.
Amathiphu Kwabesifazane
Abomabhizinisi bamukelekile kakhulu eNingizimu Afrika.
Amathiphu Okuthinta
Abantu baseNingizimu Afrika bavame ukusebenzisa ulimi lomzimba ekuboniseni lapho bekhuluma. Ungase uthole isipiliyoni sokubambisana okuningi nokunye ukubuyisela emuva. Ngabangane nabangane abaseduze, ukubamba ngesandla kuyisibonakaliso sobuhlobo.