Imithetho Yezokuvakasha Lapho Sikhuluma Nge-Brexit Ne-Brit

Njengendwendwe evela ezweni elingeyona i-EU, ikakhulukazi njengesihambeli saseNyakatho Melika, ilukuluku lakho lingakulinga ukuba uhlanganyele nabantu bendawo ekukhulumisaneni noma wabelane ngemibono ngo Brexit , kodwa kufanele wena? Futhi uma ukhona yini imingcele akufanele uwele?

Ekuqaleni kuka-July 2016, iqembu labathengi baseBrithani babelana ngemibono yabo mayelana nokuxoxisana nezivakashi ngeBrexit. Impendulo yabo yayishesha futhi icacile - ungayenzi:

"Nginabangane abaningi baseMelika futhi akekho noyedwa wabo oye wabhekana noBrexit noma wangicela noma yini engazange igcwalise intukuthelo," kusho umlobi wezokuzimela e-freelance uJulia Buckley.

"Ungazizwa kanjani uma ngiqala ukukubuza futhi ngahlulela izwe lakho ngokulawulwa kwezibhamu," kusho omunye.

Futhi ukukhuluma ngokuzimela kukaScotland ukuphendula - enye indaba ethintekayo - omunye wathi, "... bekulokhu njalo baseMelika becindezela ingxoxo kwacaca ukuthi amaScots ayengafuni ukuba nawo."

Kodwa ake sibhekane nakho, uma uvakashela i-UK post-Brexit, futhi unobungane, unelukuluku, futhi uqaphele ukuthi lezi zikhathi zomlando, isihloko sizovela. Uma kuyenzeka, uyini umkhuba walezi zingxoxo?

Amathiphu Okukhuluma Nge-Brexit Uma Ungu-Tourist

1. Ungaqalisi izingxoxo mayelana ne-Brexit - Ngaphandle kokucindezela imizwa enamandla, i-Brexit, umthelela wayo kanye nabase-partisans bayo yizihloko eziyinkimbinkimbi. Abantu abaningi baseBrithani sebevele bekhathele ngenxa yokuxoxa noma ukuphikisana phakathi kwabo. Ngeke bakujabulele ukuchaza zonke izici kanye nokuzikhandla kwakho.

1. Ungadlulisi izahlulelo noma ubeke imibono engavunyelwe - Uma isihloko sivela, ulalele, ubuze imibuzo engafanele, engaphelele ongayicabangela futhi uzwele ngokuzwelana.
2. Ungathathi izinhlangothi - Izingxoxo mayelana ne-Brexit zingashesha kahle. Uma ukhona eqenjini elixubekile nemibono ehlukile, inketho yakho ephephile ukulalela. Noma yini oyenzayo, gwema ukutshela abantu ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi benzeni noma kufanele benze manje. UMongameli Obama wazama ukuthi lapho efika eBrithani futhi esekela umkhankaso wokuhlala. Ngisho noma ethandwa kakhulu eBrithani, abantu babenqabile ukuphazamiseka kwakhe kanti ngenkathi kungenzeka ukuthi akulimazanga ukuhlala eceleni, ngokuqinisekile akazange asize.

1. Buza imibuzo evulekile - Ungabuza abantu ngokuphepha ngokuzizwa nge-Brexit, ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi kuzobachaphazela kanjani ngabanye, yiziphi izinguquko abaziqaphele kuze kube manje. Bese uhlala emuva, ulalele futhi ugxume kakhulu.
2. Yilungele ukuhlala isikhathi esithile - abantu baseBrithani, ngisho nalabo abangazi ukuthi bakhuluma ngani, bahlanganyela kakhulu kwezombusazwe kuneMelika ejwayelekile. Uma usuvule ama-floodgates, abantu abathintekayo nabathintekayo ngemuva kwe-Brexit (okufaka cishe cishe wonke umuntu) bazoba nokuningi okuzokusho. Uma useqembu, abantu abaningi bazoba nokuningi okuzohlala. Uthe intatheli uLaura Jane uthi, "Abanye bethu bakhathazekile kangangokuthi ngeke ukwazi ukusivala, ngakho-ke kungathatha isikhathi sakho esithile." Futhi, ngaphandle uma ungumgomo we-wonk oqinisekisiwe, ungasheshe ube nesithukuthezi.
3. Ungayifaki imibono yakho ngokusekelwe ezinkulumweni zakho ezivamile ezincwadini zokushicilela - Omunye umlobi wezindaba engikhulume ukubeka ngale ndlela, "Yilungele ukuzwa izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo ezivela kubantu abaningi (ohlangothini zombili) abahlala ' t umqondo onzima kunabo bonke abakushoyo. "
4. Ungenzi amahlaya mayelana "Nkululeko!" - Uma ukhuluma nomuntu ohlangothini oluhle, kungenzeka ukuthi akubuze ukuthi "Ukhululekile kulokho !?". Uma ngabe yi-Leave, ngeke bathole amahlaya akho amahle. Eqinisweni, umuzwa wokuhleka usulu, kubantu abavela emaceleni omabili wombuzo, usweleke kakhulu. Ngisho nezinhlelo zethelevishini zezinhlelo zokuhleka kwezingcingo "Ukuhlekisa Iviki" nokuthi "Ngabe Nginendaba Yakho" bevelile ngemuva kweviki ngemuva kokumenyezelwa kwemiphumela yokuhlola kanye nokuhle kakhulu kule ndaba ngesonto elilandelayo.

1. Ungaqhathanisi nosuku lwe-Independence ne-Brexit - I-EU, osebenza nabo wathi, "yiqembu elikuyo (manje) ilungu lokuzithandela." Cha, ngamanye amazwi, amandla angaphansi kwamakhosi awela phansi amakoloni awo.
2. Ungaqhathanisi noMargaret Thatcher no-Theresa May - Ukuphuza uMaggie Thatcher kwakunjengokuhlukana kukaRichard Nixon. Abantu babemthanda noma bamhlukumeza. U-Theresa May, uNdunankulu omusha waseBrithani usalokhu engaziwayo. Mayelana nento kuphela uMaggie noMeyi abafana nayo ngokobulili babo. Futhi abesifazane abesilisa nabesifazane bobabili bazokudonsela phambili ukuze bakwazi ukuxhumana.
3. Ungabuzi abantu ukuthi bavotele kanjani - noma ukuthi umlingani wabo noma amalungu omndeni bavote kanjani. Uma ufuna ukusetha ama-hornet 'nests abuzz, kubangele ukuhlelwa kwemindeni kanye namagundane avulekile angaphulukiswa, lolu hlobo lombuzo luzokwenza lokho. Abazukulu abafuna ukuhlala bathukuthele nogogo nomkhulu owavota ikhefu; amadoda nabafazi ababesezinhlangothini eziphambene nalolu daba ngeke baqonde isihloko; abambalwa abavotele ikhefu manje bezisola ngokujulile ngesinqumo sabo futhi banamahloni okukhuluma ngakho.

Esikhundleni sokukhuluma ngezinto ezilukhuni, kungani ungenzi iphutha ohlangothini lokuqapha futhi uxoxe nabantu bendawo ngesihloko esiphephile? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kushisa noma kubanda, kunetha noma kukhanya, wonke umuntu eBrithani uyajabula ukukhuluma ngesimo sezulu .