Izindlela Ezinhle Kakhulu Zokwenza Okusemandleni Kwesaba Ukuhamba Ngezindiza

Ihlelwe nguBenet Wilson

Ukwehla kwamanye amazwe, noma ukwesaba izindiza, akugcini nje emaflaya okuqala kodwa kuhlangatshezwa nakakhulu abahamba ngezinkanyezi abanomdlandla. UDkt. Nadeen White ungumdali nomhleli we-The Sophisticated Life blog, ehlanganisa izihloko zokuhamba, ukudla nokuphuza, kanye namasiko. Ungumdlali we-globetrotter obhekene nokwesaba izindiza.

UMhlophe uthi waqala ukuhamba ngezinyawo ngesikhathi eseneminyaka embalwa nje ubudala. "Ngangihamba phakathi kweJamicaica, eNew York City naseFlorida njalo ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa ngidala ngaphandle kwezinkinga," esho. "Ngikhumbula ukuthi angizange ngikujabule 'kodwa angizange ngiyeke ukuhamba."

Kodwa, eminyakeni engama-20 ubudala, uMhlophe wayephethe indiza eyashintsha impilo yakhe. "Ngangiyindiza esuka eJamaica ngiya eMiami phakathi nesiphepho. Izibani ezindizeni ziqala ukungena nokuphuma, imaski ye-oksijini yehla futhi amathrekhi okudla ayewaya emigwaqeni, "esho. "Ngangicabanga ukuthi ngizokufa. Ngemva kwendiza engangiyikhathazekile kangaka mayelana nokushayela angizange ngibambe iminyaka emibili. "

Esikhundleni salokho, i-White yayithatha isitimela eya eFlorida ukuyovakashela umndeni phakathi naleyo minyaka emibili engayiboni. "Olunye uhambo oluvela eMiami luya eWashington, DC, lwathatha amahora angu-24. Ngangazi ukuthi kufanele ngibuyele endizeni , "esho. "Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngiphupha ukubona izwe futhi ngangazi ukuthi ngeke ngikwenze ngesitimela."

I-White inamasu amahlanu amahle wokuthi abantu abesaba izindiza bangavumelanisa kanjani.

Khuluma nabantu Abafakela Ukuphila Noma Abafake I-Lot for Work and Even Enjoyment.

Buza imibono yabo ngalokho okusabayo uma kuziwa ezindizeni. Ngimi kungukuhlukunyezwa. Umama, owayeyisethi ye-jet, wangitshela ukuba ngicabange njengamapulangwe emgwaqweni lapho ushayela.

Funda futhi ufunde ngezindiza namarekhodi abo okuphepha

Kuyindlela ephephile kakhulu yokuhamba ngaphezu kokushayela. Cabanga ngalokhu futhi njalo kangakanani izindiza ziphuma ngaphandle kwezinkinga kanye neqiniso lokuthi uqhuba usuku nosuku.

Khuluma no-Therapist mayelana nokwesaba kwakho

Thuthukisa izindlela zokuphumula zokuhamba . Ukuzivocavoca okuphefumulayo uma uzizwa ukuhlaselwa kwesibindi kuyoba usizo.

Khuluma noMdokotela Wakho Uma Okungaphezulu Kungakusizi

Kulabo abazama ukuhlaselwa ngokwesaba ngenkathi behamba ngendiza, imithi kufanele icatshangelwe.

Thatha izindiza ezincane kuqala ku-Adapt

Fly with ilungu lomndeni noma umngane ongakusiza ukukhuluma nawe futhi akuphazamise lapho ukwesaba noma ukwesaba kwakho kungena.

"Ngicabanga ukuthi inkambo noma ukufunda incwadi mayelana nokwesaba izindiza kungumqondo omuhle," kusho uMhlophe. "Ngiyazi abantu abanesibindi sokuhamba ngezindiza okwenzile amakilasi okuqhuma indiza ngokuphumelela."

Kunezifundo eziningi, kokubili ku-intanethi futhi ezinikezwe izindiza nezinkampani, ezihloswe ekuvumelaneni nokuqeda ukwesaba izindiza, okuqokonyiswe ngezansi.