INingizimu Afrika iyinhlangano ethandwayo yokushada okuya kuyo, ngenxa yezindawo zayo ezinhle kakhulu, isimo sezulu esinokwethenjelwa namanani angabizi kakhulu. Njengoba unokuningi okumele ukwenze futhi ubone , kunokuningi okukhethwa kukho kokuthunyelwe kwakho komkhosi; ngenkathi abangane nomndeni bangase basebenzise umshado wakho njengesizathu sokwenza uhambo lokuphila konke.
Kodwa-ke, uma ufuna ukubamba umkhosi wezomthetho eNingizimu Afrika kanye neqembu lomshado, kuzodingeka ufake ukuhlela okubalulekile okukhulu.
Kunezincwadi eziningi ezihilelekile, kuyilapho imishado ezindaweni zokuhlala ezihle kakhulu ze-safari zidinga ukuqapha ngokucophelela. Uma ubheka indawo evelele kakhulu, kungase kudingeke ukuthi ubhale isikhathi esingangonyaka kusengaphambili.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi imikhosi yakho iyomthetho
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umshado wakho uyomthetho. Njengamanye amazwe, iNingizimu Afrika inemithetho eyingqayizivele yezinye izizwe ezihlela umshado ngaphakathi kwemingcele yayo. Udinga ukwazi kahle lezi, ngakho-ke azikho izimanga ezimbi zokugcina. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi le mithetho ishintshe ngezimvamisa ezivusa amadlingozi, ngakho qiniseka ukuthi uhlole iWebhu leNdaba yoMnyango WezaseKhaya ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokuqala amalungiselelo akho. Ngesikhathi sokubhala, amadokhumenti adingekayo afaka:
- Ubufakazi be-ID: Bobabili wena nomlingani wakho kuzodingeka ukhiqize izitifiketi zakho zokuzalwa zokuqala kanye nepasipoti evumelekile okungenani amasakazo amabili amabili angenalutho.
- Ubufakazi bokushintsha kwegama: Uma ngabe omunye wenu ushintshile igama lakho (noma ngomshado wangaphambilini noma nge-poll yezenzo), uzodinga ukunikeza ubufakazi bokushintsha.
- Imishado yangaphambilini: Uma ngabe omunye wenu ushada ngaphambilini, kuzodingeka unikeze ubufakazi bokuthi ukhululekile ukushada futhi. Lokhu kusho ukukhiqiza isinqumo sakho esingavumelekile uma uhlukanisile, noma uveza isitifikedi sokufa somlingani oshonile.
- Ubufakazi Bokwemvume: Uma ungaphansi kweminyaka engu-18, uzodinga i-afidavithi engacacisiwe evela kubazali bobabili noma imvume yakho yomthetho yokunikeza umlingani wakho. Uma le ndoda ingaphansi kweminyaka engu-18 noma owesifazane ungaphansi kweminyaka engu-15, imvume ebhaliwe evela kuNgqongqoshe Wezasekhaya iyodingeka futhi.
- Isimemezelo Senhloso Yomshado: Uma ungowesizwe esingaphandle futhi oshade naye isakhamizi saseNingizimu Afrika, kuzodingeka futhi uthumele ifomu eyaziwa ngokuthi iBI-31 .
- Incwadi engekho Impediment: Umthetho waseNingizimu Afrika udinga abantu bezinye izizwe ukuba banikeze incwadi ye-No Impediment. Lesi yisitatimende esivela ebhalweni lomshado wezwe lakho lasekhaya eliqinisekisa ukuthi usesho lwamarekhodi womshado kazwelonke ukufakazela ukuthi awushadile kakade. Amanye amazwe (ikakhulukazi i-UK) awahlinzeki ngezincwadi ze-No-Impediment; Kulolu cala, kuzodingeka ucele isikhulu sakho somshado iseluleko mayelana nokuthi yini ongayinikezela esikhundleni. Ngokuvamile, incwadi esayinwe futhi ehlolwe evela kuhulumeni wakho wasekhaya ethi abakwazi ukuthola ubufakazi bomshado okhona kuyokwanela.
- Indawo yokuhlala: Bonke abokufika kumele babe "abahlali" eNingizimu Afrika okungenani amahora angu-24 ngaphambi komshado. Konke lokhu kusho ukuthi isitembu sokungenela ku-passport yakho kufanele sibekwe okungenani usuku olulodwa ngaphambi kosuku lomshado wakho.
- Indawo: Umshado wakho kufanele wenziwe esakhiweni senkolo, ihhovisi lomphakathi noma indawo yokuhlala yangasese phambi kofakazi ababili. Irejista yomshado kufanele isayinwe ngaphansi kophahla oluhlala unomphela - into okudingeka uyihlole uma uhlela umshado ongaphandle.
Wonke amadokhumenti akho (ngaphandle kwemvelaphi efana nepasipoti yakho) kufanele ahlonishwe nguKomishinala Wezindlela. Kungumqondo omuhle ukuthwala amakhophi ombala. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kunendlela elula yokudlula inhloko yekhanda lokuhlela umshado wezomthetho eNingizimu Afrika. Cabanga ngomkhosi omfushane womphakathi ezweni lakho kuqala, ngaphambi kokuya eNingizimu Afrika ngezindaba zokugqoka ezimhlophe kanye ne-post-wedding party.
Okunye Okubalulekile Okubalulekile
Imishado yongqingili yowomthetho eNingizimu Afrika; Kodwa-ke, izikhulu zomshado ngabanye zivunyelwe ukuphuma ekuhambiseni imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo ngenxa yezikholo zabo zenkolo.
Ngakho-ke, kuzodingeka ucwaninge ngokukhetha kwakho iphoyisa ngokucophelela.
ENingizimu Afrika, yonke imibhangqwana ishada ngokuzenzekelayo emphakathini wempahla, okusho ukuthi izimpahla zakho kanye nezikweletu zakho zihlanganiswe endaweni yokujoyina - kuhlanganise nalabo owatholile ngaphambi komshado wakho. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umlingani ngamunye unelungelo lokuhlanganyela kwesigamu kuzo zonke izimpahla uma kwenzeka isehlukaniso, futhi kufanele athathe umthwalo ofanayo wezikweletu zemali. Indlela kuphela yokukhululwa kulo mthetho ukucela ummeli ukuba abhale inkontileka ye-ante-nuptial (i-ANC) okumelwe isayinwe ngaphambi komshado.
Ngosuku lwakho lomshado, uzokhishwa ngokushesha ngesitifiketi somshado esibhaliwe ngesandla, esizoguqulwa njengesitifiketi esisemthethweni lapho umphathi wakho ebhalisa inyunyana yakho noMnyango Wezasekhaya. Uzodinga isitifiketi esingenasidlangalaleni esiphezulu ukuze ubhalise umshado wakho ezweni lakini, noma kunjalo. Lokhu kungasetshenziswa eMnyangweni WezaseKhaya futhi ngokuvamile kuthatha izinyanga ezimbalwa ukuqedela. Ungasheshisa inqubo yemali encane usebenzisa i-ejensi.
Ukuhlela Umshado Wakho
Uma nje amaphepha ehlungwa, kumnandi ukuhlela umkhosi ngokwayo ungaqala. INingizimu Afrika yindawo ehlukene kakhulu futhi kunezimo cishe nganoma yiluphi uhlobo lomshado ongacabanga; kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna umshado we-beachback owawubekwe eceleni, isenzakalo esiseduze endaweni yokulala enkanyezi ezinhlanu ezinkanyezi noma umcimbi omkhulu womphakathi esitolo sewayini saseKapa . Ngaphandle kokuba wazi kahle iNingizimu Afrika, noma kunjalo, ukuhlela imininingwane kungase kube yinkimbinkimbi evela phesheya kwezilwandle.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukunquma ngosuku nosendaweni, bese ubhalela okusheshayo ngokushesha. Ukukhokha idiphozi ngokusebenzisa ukudluliselwa kwebhange ngamazwe kubiza ngokusheshisa, ngakho cabanga ukusebenzisa inkampani ozimele njenge-TransferWise. Hlola ukubuyekezwa kwazo zonke izinsizakalo ngokucophelela, ngoba uma ungekho lapho uxoxisana nomthwebuli wezithombe zakho noma umphathi wakho wezintandokazi ngomuntu, kungaba nzima ukwazi ukuthi uthola yini okufunayo. Ukusebenzisa amasevisi womhleli wezobuchwepheshe kuyindlela enhle yokunciphisa amazinga okucindezeleka.
Ukuhlelwa kwezimali ngokucophelela kuyisici esibalulekile kunoma imuphi umshado, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu uma ushada ngaphandle kwezilwandle. Udinga ukucabangela izindleko zezindiza zakho kanye ne- visa (uma udinga eyodwa), kanye nemisebenzi efana nemigomo kanye nezimoto eziqashisayo . Ungakhohlwa ukucabangela isabelomali sezivakashi zakho - ngaphandle uma ubakhokha nabo, uzodinga ukuthi uyithengise noma ukhawule uhlu lwakho lokumema. Banikeze isixwayiso esihle - ekuqaleni uthumela izimemo, isikhathi eside kumele basindise imali noma bafake isicelo sokuvala isikhathi.
Indawo kanye nesikhathi kubuye kubalulekile. Uma ufuna iqembu elikhulu, udinga ukufinyeleleka ezindaweni eziningi zokuhlala - ngakho-ke ukuya esiqhingini esikude esingasesikhunjeni akunakwenzeka. Uma uhamba kakhulu kunoma iyiphi ithrekhi ekhishwe, kuyodala kakhulu ukuthola bonke abahlinzeki bakho endaweni. Qiniseka ukuthi ucwaninga isimo sezulu ngaphambi kokunquma ngosuku. Isimo sezulu saseNingizimu Afrika sendawo kakhulu, kanti izinkathi zonyaka ziphikisana nalabo bamazwe asenyakatho yezwekazi njenge-US ne-UK.
Le ngqungquthela ibuyekeziwe futhi ibhalwa kabusha yi-Jessica Macdonald ngoFebhuwari 14, 2017.