Okufanele Ukwazi Nge-Hymen Ngaphambi Kokuthi Ube Nokwenyama
Iyini i-Hymen?
I-hymen, noma "insikazi yamantombazane," yimbumbulu encane, enomzimba emantombazaneni namantombazane abasha asetshenziselwa ukuvulwa kwesifazane. Ngokujwayelekile i-hymen ine-perforation ephakathi, engaba yindilinga noma ihlukaniswe, futhi ngegazi lokuya esikhathini uzogeleza.
Kwase kuyisikhathi eside, bakholwa ukuthi i-hymen eqinile yayiwubufakazi bentombi yentombazane, ngoba lezi zinhlobo zaziyisivimbela ngokomzimba kwezocansi.
Ubulili kanye ne-Hymen
I-hymen engacacile ingathathwa futhi ihlukaniswe yi-penis ehle ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi. Ngenxa yalokho, owesifazane oyintombi angase abe nomuzwa wokukhathazeka okwesikhashana kanye / noma aphuze. Uma ubuhlungu noma ukuphuma kwegazi kufanele kuqhubeke, ukubonisana nodokotela kulungile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, angeke kube khona igazi noma ubuhlungu obubandakanyeka nhlobo uma i-hymen idiliziwe.
Ngaphandle kwe-penis-ubulili bobulili, izindlela zobulili zokuthi "ukulimaza" intombazane (enye inkolelo yokuqothula ama-hymen) ihlanganisa:
- Ukufakela umunwe ngokujulile noma ungene ngaphakathi kwesiswini
- Ukushaya indlwabu nge-vibrator ene-phallic, i-dildo noma enye ithuluzi elinjalo
Ingabe Indaba ye-Hymen?
Eminye imikhakha eguquguqukayo, emadodeni, egcina ubuntombi bentombazane kuze kube yilapho ubusuku bayo obusika bubhekwa njengobungcweti obubucayi nokuqinisekiswa kokubaluleka kwayo "nokuhlanzeka." Ukuthandana nabo kulezo ziko kungase kuhambisane nokubonisa "ubufakazi" ngemuva kokuzalwa kwakhe. Kwamanye amazwe, ishidi elikhishwe ngegazi lisalindelwe ngokuziqhenya ngaphandle kwelanga lomshado.
Namuhla eMelika, i-hymen ilahlekelwe ukubaluleka kwayo njengesihlangu sobuncane njengoba abesifazane abasha nabesilisa abasha kakhulu ngaphambi kokushada. Ngaphandle kwamalungu ezinkolo ze-fundamentalist, ukuba ne-hymen empeleni kungase kubonakale njengomthwalo, futhi "ukulahlekelwa" kungumkhuba wokuhamba.
Iqiniso: Abanye Amantombazane Ababe Amantombazane Angenawo ama-Hymen Nhlobo
Nakuba ukutholakala kwe-hymen kubonisa ukuthi uyintombi, ukungabi khona kwe-hymen akusikho ubufakazi bokuthi intombazane ayiyona intombi, okusho ukuthi umuntu owake walala naye.
Abesifazane abasebasha abane-hymen bangakwazi "ukuphula (noma ukuphakamisa) i-cherry yabo" ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukene, ngezinye izikhathi ngaphandle kokwazi. Ezinye zezindlela ezingezona ezocansi lapho ama-hymen azoklebhula khona:
- Ngengozi noma ukulimala
- Ukugibela amahhashi, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili, ukuqhuma okuphezulu, noma ukuvocavoca
- Ukufakwa komunwe noma insimbi ngudokotela ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kwe-pelvic
- Ukufaka isitampu
- Overzealous douching
Abesifazane abakhathazekile ngokuthi ukuxoshwa kwabo ngesikhathi sokulala kuzoba buhlungu futhi bakhiphe inkumbulo embi emisha yomshado bangabuza umjozi wezifo ukuvula i-hymen kubo.
Ukubuyisela i-Hymen
Kwamanye amasiko abuyele emuva, ukungabi khona kwegazi ngemva kokulala ngokobulili kuqala kuqhubeka nokubuza imibuzo ngobuntombi bomlobokazi. Ukuze zizivikele ebudloveni ngisho nasekufeni, abesifazane abathintekayo abahlala kulezi zindawo bangase bahlele ukuhlelwa kwemithi, okuyindlela yokuhlinzwa yokulungisa ama-hymen ngokuyihlanganisa ndawonye. Kuyaziwa nangokuthi i-hymenoplasty.
Ukuhlinzwa okujwayelekile okwenziwa ngama-hymen kungadla izinkulungwane zamadola ayizinkulungwane. Esikhundleni sokuthatha isilinganiso esinzima kakhulu futhi esibizayo, umuntu osanda kushada angenza isenzo esisha "sokuqala" sothando sibe nesiqiniseko ngokufaka ngaphakathi kwendoda i-capsule ye-gelatin equkethe into efana negazi ngokushesha ngaphambi kokuya ocansini.
Ubani u-Hymen?
Ngokusho kwemithombo, i-hymen ibizwa ngokuthi unkulunkulu wamaGrisi uHimmenaeus. Indodana kaBachus noVenus, u-Hymenaeus wathola idumela lakhe njengonkulunkulu womshado nemishado.