Isihloko esivame kakhulu ukuhambisana neRussia - ngisho nazo zonke izikhangiso ozibonayo ngenkathi ufuna ulwazi mayelana nokuya eRussia - umqondo we "umshayeli waseRashiya (i-mail-order)". Imfundiso yukuthi kunabesifazane abaningi eRussia abafisa ukushada abacebile kanye / noma baphume ezweni, ngakho-ke bayojabula ngokushada noma ubani owanikeza indlela yokuphila yama-cushy kanye ne-visa.
Ingxenye ye-mail-oda ivela kumawebhusayithi asebenza ngokusobala njengamasevisi okuphola afana nalabo abashadile abazithandayo namadoda abo esizayo. Futhi wonke umuntu ubonakala enendaba 'yomngane' owayala umlobokazi waseRashiya owahlukanisa naye ngokushesha nje lapho ethola ubuzwe bakhe obugcwele. Nakuba lokho kuzwakale njengenganekwane engenangqondo uma ungena esikhundleni sokuthi "isiRashiya" nganoma yibuphi ubuzwe baseWestern, ngeke ngimangele uma abantu abaningi befunda lokhu bebheka ukuthi kuyiqiniso uma kuziwa eRussia. Ngakho ake sizame ukususa indaba kancane:
Ingabe Kungenzeka Ngempela Ukuthenga Umlobokazi waseRussia?
Impendulo emfushane ayikho. Ngenkathi kunamawebusayithi anikeza abesifazane abalungele futhi bazimisele ukuthunyelwa kumthengi ophezulu, lezi zihlazo. Futhi, lokhu kuthiwa ukuhweba abantu futhi akuvumelekile.
Amawebhusayithi kuphela abonakala ehlinzeka "abesifazane" baseRussia abesifazane abathakazelayo abakhuluma isiNgisi ngokuyinhloko amasayithi okuphola.
Iningi lala mahhala ukuze abesifazane basebenzise, kodwa bahlawulise amadoda ukuba athumele imilayezo, ingxoxo yevidiyo, njalo njalo. Lokhu futhi akuqinisekisi ukuthi indoda izokwenyuka ngempela owesifazane esayithini - konke okukunikezayo ukukhulumisana kwe-intanethi. Uma ukuphola kuphuma ungaxhunyiwe ku-intanethi abasahlanganyeli kule nqubo.
Amaningi alawa mawebhusayithi asetshenziswa yizinkampani zase-US, namagatsha ase-satellite eMpumalanga Yurophu.
Kukhona futhi amawebhusayithi okuthandana naye, lapho "ama-ejensi" enza amaphrofayela amanga e-intanethi futhi akhokhela abesifazane ukubhala imilayezo, leyo madoda okufanele akhokhe ukuze abone futhi ayiphendule.
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"Abesifazane baseRussia", iningi lawo empeleni liyi-Ukraine, iya kuma-ejensi angokwenyama ukuze "ubhalisele" iwebhusayithi. Laba besifazane ngokuvamile bavotelwa ngabasebenzi be-ejensi. Uma owesifazane ethathwa njengelungile, encane, omncane, noma efundisiwe ngokwanele, ngeke akwazi ukusebenzisa isevisi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kumawebhusayithi avumela labo abafuna "umakoti" ukuba baxoxe nabesifazane - ngokwemvelo, bafuna ukukhetha amahle kunawo wonke ukukhulisa intshisekelo nenzuzo.
Abesifazane abamukelwayo (ngokuvamile) baqinisekisiwe, okungukuthi i-Ids yabo ilandwa futhi ikopishwe kwisitatimende se-agency. Ngakho-ke ngokuvamile banikezwa isaphulelo esinqunyiwe noma samahhala, okuyisisekelo esithinta izithombe ezisikiselayo embhedeni, ogwini nokunye okunye. Abesifazane bangenza iphrofayli besebenzisa amakhompiyutha ejensi.
Uma i-English yesifazane enganele ukuxhumana namadoda eyedwa, ama-ejensi anikezela "izinsiza zokuhumusha" lapho ilungu lomsebenzi libhalela khona imiyalezo esikhundleni.
Angazi ngokwazi ukuthi ukuhunyushwa kunembile kangakanani, kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi imiyalezo eminingi ethunyelwa emadodeni ihambisana nobulili noma okungenani iyaphakamisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yilokho okukhethwa ngumfazi ukuthi ukhethe.
Kungani owesifazane waseRussia efuna ukuba 'umlobokazi waseRussia?'
Ngaphandle kweMoscow neSt. Petersburg , futhi nase-Ukraine, isimo sezomnotho asikhulu. Abantu abaningi baphila ngaphansi kobuphofu, imisebenzi ayidlala, kuyabiza ukuthuthela emadolobheni amakhulu, futhi yebo, enye yezindlela elula kakhulu "zokuphuma" ukushada nesakhamuzi sezwe lasentshonalanga.
Kukhona ukungalingani ngokobulili eRussia nase-Ukraine, kunabesifazane abaningi kunamadoda, okwenza kube nzima ukuthola umyeni futhi kungenzeka ukuthi umyeni oyitholayo uyothola ilungelo, uvila futhi akajabulisi.
Amadoda aseNtshonalanga ayabonakala sengathi kungenzeka acebile futhi kulula ukujabulisa.
Inkinga ehlobene nayo yukuthi emphakathini waseRashiya nase-Ukraine, kubonakala kubalulekile ukuba owesifazane atshade esencane kakhulu (cishe nxazonke 25 kuba yisiphephelo esivunyelwe). Ngenxa yalokho, abesifazane baseRussia bakhuliswa ukuze bakwazi ukupheka, ukuhlanza, nokwenza izingane kahle (akuzona zonke, kodwa-ke yilokho okulindelweyo jikelele), futhi bayazi ukuthi lezi zimfanelo ziyakwazi kakhulu West. Ngokufanayo, njengoba umphakathi waseRussia ungumuntu ocansini ngokobulili, abanye (hhayi konke!) Amadoda aseRussia alindele "abesifazane bawo" ukupheka, ukuhlanza nokwenza abantwana kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abanye bazibophezele ngani futhi abesifazane abaningi baseRussia babone ukuthi baphunyuka eNtshonalanga njengendlela yokuthola kancane inkululeko eyengeziwe empilweni yabo.
Ngithola kanjani uMlobokazi waseRussia?
Abesifazane baseRashiya banhle, bahleka, bahleka futhi bahlakaniphile. Kodwa ungakhathazeki ngamawebhusayithi wokuthandana - kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi uhlehliswe kunanoma yini enye. Zitholele i- visa yezokuvakasha kanye nethikithi lendiza, funda kancane isiRussia bese ushaya imishayo namaqembu .