Ukubingelela okuyisisekelo kweJapane nokuthi ukukhotha ngokufanele
Ukwazi ukuthi ungabonga kanjani ngesiJapane kulula ukufunda futhi kubalulekile ngaphambi kokuvakashela eJapane, futhi ungangena kuzo kwezinye izilungiselelo eduze nomuzi.
Ngeke nje ukwazi okungenani ulimi lwesiJapane kuletha ukumomotheka okumbalwa, kubonisa inhlonipho kanye nesithakazelo esiko lendawo. Ukufunda amagama ambalwa olimi lwendawo kuyindlela enhle yokuxhumana kangcono nendawo .
I-Japanese empeleni kulula ukufunda kunezinye izilimi ze-tonal zase-Asia ezifana nesi-Mandarin, isi-Vietnamese nesi-Thai.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwazi ukuthi ukukhothamela indlela efanele kumuntu waseJapane kunokuba uzame ukubuyisela umnsalo ongalindelekile kungeza ukuzethemba okukhulu. Ngisho noma ungaqiniseki ngokuphelele ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani lokhu, ukubuyisela umnsalo womuntu akusihloniphi kakhulu.
Ukuhlonipha ngolimi lwesiJapane
Njengoba nje ungahle unikeze "umuntu ohloniphekile," ku-boss noma umuntu osekhulile, imikhonzo yaseJapane ivela emazingeni ahlukahlukene ajwayelekile ngokuya ngenani lenhlonipho ofuna ukuyikhombisa.
Isiko saseJapane sinezinkolelo ezihloniphekile kanye nama-hierarchies kuye ngokuthi ubudala, isimo senhlalo, kanye nobuhlobo. Ngisho namadoda nabafazi basebenzisa inhlonipho lapho bekhuluma omunye nomunye.
Ukubingelela ngesiqondiso saseJapane nokukhothamela konke kuyingxenye yesimiso esiyinkimbinkimbi esisebenza imithetho yokulondoloza ubuso . Kufanele uhlale uzama ukugwema ngephutha ukuphoqa noma ukuchitha umuntu ngendlela ebenza ukuba "balahlekelwe ubuso."
Nakuba ukusebenzisa ukuhlonipha okungalungile kungaba yinkinga engathí sina, ngenhlanhla, kukhona okuzenzakalelayo okumele kusetshenziswe uma ungaqiniseki. Ukwengeza " -san " ekupheleni kwegama (lokuqala noma lokugcina) kuvamise ukwamukeleka kunoma yiliphi ubulili kuzo zombili izimo ezisemthethweni nezingakahleleki, ucabanga ukuthi umuntu othile ulingana nesikhathi sakho nesimo.
Ukulinganisa isiNgisi kungaba "Mnu" noma "uNkk / Ms."
Ungasho kanjani Sawubona ngesiJapan
I-Konnichiwa (ebizwa ngokuthi: "kon-nee-chee-wah") iyindlela eyisisekelo yokwamukela isiJapane, kodwa, ikakhulukazi izwa ntambama. I-Konnichiwa isetshenziswe njengendlela ehloniphekile-kodwa-generic yokwamukela umuntu omncane kakhulu, umngane noma okunye.
U-Konnichiwa ubeyingxenye yomusho wokubingelela (namuhla u ...), noma kunjalo, ukusetshenziswa kwawo kuye kwaguqula le nkulumo ezikhathini zanamuhla njengendlela efinyeziwe yokumane ukhulume. Ukulingana kwesiNgisi kungase kufane nokuthi "usuku oluhle" kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isikhathi sosuku sini.
Izibingelelo eziyisisekelo zaseJapane
Nakuba ungathola ngokubingelela okuyisisekelo konnichiwa , njengokungathi uma ukhuluma ngesiMaleysia , abantu baseJapane bangase basebenzise imikhonzo ehlukene esekelwe ngesikhathi sosuku. Amaholide kanye nezikhathi ezikhethekile ezifana nezinsuku zokuzalwa zinokubekwa kwabo okubingelelwayo.
Imisindo yaseJapane eyisisekelo ihluke kakhulu, kuye ngesikhathi:
I-Good Morning: Ohayou gozaimasu (ebizwa ngokuthi: "oh-hi-oh goh-zai-mas") Ukubingelela kunganciphisa ngokusho nje ngokuthi ohayou (kuzwakale njengendlela yokubiza isimo sase-Ohio sase-Ohio), noma kunjalo, lokhu kungakahlelekile , njengoba nje unganikela "ekuseni" elula kumngani.
Usuku Lwemnandi : Konnichiwa (obizwa ngokuthi: "kon-nee-chee-wah")
Ukuhlwa Okuhle: Konbanwa (ebizwa ngokuthi: "kon-bahn-wah")
Ubusuku obuhle: Oyasumi nasai (obizwa ngokuthi: "oy-yah-sue-mee nah-sigh")
Qaphela: Nakuba kungenalo i-tonal, ulimi lwesiJapane lusetshenziswa uhlelo lokugcizelela. Amagama akhulunywa ngamapaki ahlukene ngokuya nesifunda. Isikhumbuzi saseTokyo sibhekwa njengesiJapane esijwayelekile futhi yilo okufanele usebenzise ukuze ufunde amagama. Kodwa ungalindeli amagama owafundile ukuzwakala okufanayo nakwezinye izingxenye zezwe!
Ukubuza "Ungubani?" ngesi-Japanese
Indlela ehlelekile nehloniphekayo yokubuza ukuthi "wenza kanjani?" NgesiJapan kune- o -genki desu ka? (kuthiwa: "oh-gain-kee des-kah"). I "u" ekupheleni kwe- desu ayithuli.
Ukuze uphendule ngokuzithoba ukuthi wenza kahle, sebenzisa i- atashi ye-genki desu (ebizwa ngokuthi: wah-tah- shee-gae-gae-dee de).
Ngaphandle kwalokho, ungakwazi nje ukusho i- genki desu (ebizwa ngokuthi: gain-kee des). Landela impendulo zombili nge- arigato (ebizwa ngokuthi: "ar-ee-gah-toh") , okusho ukuthi "ngiyabonga." Yisho i- arigato! ngentshiseko futhi njengathi usho lokho.
Ungabe ucela i- anatawa? (okubizwa ngokuthi: "ahn-nah-taw-wah") okusho ukuthi "nawe?"
Kunezindlela ezimbalwa ezingahlelekile zokubuza umbuzo ofanayo:
- Kwenzenjani? Nannika atta (ebizwa ngokuthi: "nah-nee-kah-tah")
- Yini entsha? I-kawatta koto aru (ebizwa ngokuthi: "ka-wah-tah koto ar-ew")
- Konke Kanjani? Dou shiteru (ebizwa ngokuthi: "doh-stair-ew")
Impendulo engakahleleki, engavamile kumngane ingaba yi- aikawarazu desu (ebizwa ngokuthi: "iso-kah-wah-raz des") noma "okufana nokujwayelekile." Izingane ezipholile ziyayithanda le.
Ukukhothama eJapane
Nakuba ukwazi ukuthi ungabonga ngesiJapane kuningi ngokuqondile, ukungena nokuphuma kokugwedla kungahle kudideke ekuqaleni kwabaseNtshonalanga. Ungamangazi uma umngane wakho omusha waseJapane ehlinzeka ngesandla ukuze asindise ukuhlazeka okungenzeka ukuthi ungakwazi ukukhothama.
Uma uthola esesimweni esihlelekile lapho izintambo zishintshaniswa - ungethuki! Okokuqala, khumbula ukuthi abantu baseJapane abalindele ngempela ukuthi abaseNtshonalanga babe nolwazi oluningiliziwe ngamasiko abo kanye nokuziphatha kwabo. Bayojabula kakhulu uma ubonisa ulwazi oluthile lwamasiko. Ngendwangu, ukugquma okungajwayelekile kwekhanda kuyokwanela esikhundleni somnsalo uma usuqine ngokuphelele!
Kungakhathaliseki, ukubonisa inhlonipho, kufanele wenze okuthile ukuvuma umnsalo womuntu. Yiphonse!
Indlela Yokukhothama eJapane
Amadoda awela ngezandla zawo ngqo, izandla ezinhlangothini noma emilenzeni, iminwe iqonde. Abesifazane ngokuvamile bakhothamela ngezandla zabo ziboshwe phambi kwazo.
Gcina imhlane yakho iqondile, bese ugoba esikhwameni ngamehlo akho phansi . Uma isikhathi eside futhi sijula umnsalo, inhlonipho ebonisiwe. Njalo ukhothamele ngokujulile kubadala nabantu abasezikhundleni zegunya. Uma ungaqiniseki, gcina umnsalo wakho kancane futhi ujulile kunalowo owutholile.
Umnsalo ongathandeki uhlanganisa ukugoqa cishe ama-degree angu-15 okhalweni. Umnsalo kubantu abangabazi noma ukubonga othile uzoya ku-degrees ezingaba ngu-30. Umnsalo ohlelekile kakhulu ukubonisa ukuxolisa noma inhlonipho ephakeme kudinga ukuguqa kuya kuma-degree angama-45, lapho ubheka khona izicathulo zakho ngokuphelele.
Ithiphu: Ngaphandle kokuthi ungumculi we-karate olwa nomphikisi, ungagcini ubuso obunjalo njengoba uguqa! Lokhu kungabhekwa njengesenzo sokungaqiniseki ngisho nokuhlukunyezwa.
Ngesibingelelo esisemthethweni, ngezinye izikhathi imibhoshongo ishintshana ngokuphindaphindiwe; ungase uzibuze ukuthi kuphephile yini ukubuyisela umnsalo wokugcina! Umnsalo ngamunye olandelanayo kufanele ube esheshayo futhi ojulile kunokwedlulela kuze kube yilapho bobabili ababambe iqhaza befika esiphethweni sokuthi inhlonipho eyanele ibonisiwe.
Ngezinye izikhathi umnsalo uhambisana nokuxhashazwa kwesitayela saseNtshonalanga - kokubili kokubili ngesikhathi esifanayo kungaba mnandi! Uma ungaphakathi isikhala esicacile noma umile eduze ngemva kokugubha izandla, vula kancane ngakwesobunxele ukuze ungafaki amakhanda.
Ngemuva kokuthi yonke imikhonto nemikhonzo ishintshwe, unganikwa ikhadi lebhizinisi. Thola ikhadi ngezandla zombili, ubambe emagumbini, ufunde ngokucophelela, uphathe ngokuhlonipha okukhulu! Ukumemeza ikhadi lomunye umuntu esikhwameni sakho sangemuva kuyisimo esingathí sina esingathí sina kulesi sici sebhizinisi saseJapane .
Ukuthi "I-Cheers" ngesiJapane
Manje ukuthi uyazi ukuthi ungabonga kanjani ngesiJapane, uzofuna ukwazi ukuthi ungathini "ujabulela" uma abangane bakho abasanda kuhlangana befuna ukuphuza. Isiqu sokuphuza saseJapane yisifundo sonke, kodwa nansi izinto ezimbili ezibaluleke kakhulu okumele wazi:
- Indlela yokusho i-cheers ngesiJapan ine-kanpai enomdlandla ! (okubizwa ngokuthi: "gahn-pie!").
- Indlela efanele yokubiza (isiphuzo) yi "sah-keh," hhayi "uk-key" njengoba kuvame ukuzwa.