Uma ubiza i-spa ukubhuka ukusikhipha umzimba , cishe uhlale ubuzwa ukuthi ukhetha yini umuthi wesilisa noma wesifazane osibulala . Qagela? Bazi ukuthi uzosho ukuthini. "Ngithanda owesifazane, sicela." Lokhu kuyiqiniso noma ngabe uyindoda noma owesifazane. Abesifazane bathanda abahlengikazi be-massage therapists ngoba bayazi ukuthi bazobe behamba ngaphansi kwalolu shici futhi abafuni ukucabanga, "kunamafutha," noma kubi nakakhulu, "ube nomzimba omkhulu."
Abesilisa abesilisa abesilisa abathandana nabesifazane bafuna ukuhlunga abesifazane ngenxa yokuthi ukuhlangana kwabo ngokuhamba ngaphansi kweshidi kungukuthi kukhona owesifazane ekamelweni, abathinta. Ngisho noma kungesiwo ohlangothini lwezocansi, kulula kakhulu futhi kulula ukuphumula.
Lokhu okuthandwa ngabahlengikazi besifazane kunamandla kakhulu kangangokuthi amaphesenti angu-86 okuhlunga abantu abayisishukela abesifazana, ngokwe-American Massage Therapy Association. Kukhona ngisho nama-spas angeke aqashe amadoda ngoba kunzima ukuwabhuka.
Lokhu kuyamahloni, ngoba abantu banganikeza ukusikhipha okukhulu okukhulu. Amathrafikhi e-massage therapy ngokuvamile anezikhwepha ezingaphezulu, okungaba usizo ngeziqu ezijulile zokushukela izicubu . Futhi labo abasinda kule mboni ngokuvamile banamakhono amaningi.
Abaningi-abagibeli abanokuhlangenwe nakho okuvamile abanandaba ukuthi ukuxilonga izidakamizwa kungamaduna noma abesifazane. Bakhululekile ngomkhuba futhi bazi ukuthi into ebaluleke kakhulu yikhono, hhayi ubulili. Ukuxosha abahlinzeki baqeqeshelwa ukuhlonipha imingcele bese basebenzisa ama- draping efanele, ngakho-ke lezi zindaba akufanele zibe yinkinga.
Izimpikiswano ezinama-Male Therapists
Ingabe kuyiqiniso ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi kunezinkinga? Yebo. Ngezinye izikhathi isilwane esinobudokotela besilisa siziphatha ngendlela engafanele. Owesifazane angatshelwa ukuthi unomzimba omuhle ngesikhathi sokusikhipha. Akufanele kube khona imibono enjalo. Noma izandla zomuntu wesilisa zingase zihambe ngokungahambi kahle emathangeni angaphakathi angowesifazane.
Uma unomuzwa wokuthi okuthile kuphelile, thembela ama-instincts akho. Vuka, phelisa ukusikhipha, bese uvumela ideskithophu yangaphambili ukwazi ngomuzwa wakho. Lawa angama-massage therapists akufanele abe sebhizinisi. Ngoba ungabheka bonke labo besifazane ukuthi, "Ngingathanda owesifazane, sicela."
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha abahlengikazi besilisa noma abesifazane, bakhululeke ukukusho ngaphambili. Kuyinto massage yakho, futhi kufanele ujabulele it. Kodwa cabangela okungenani ukuthi iningi labantu abasebenza besilisa abahlinzeka ngamathambo basuke abanethalente futhi bazinikezele ngempela.